Don't understand this girls actions after I told her I liked her and asked her out.

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Long post incoming.

 

I met this extremely shy girl last year at a convention. She's 20 and I'm 22. We added each other on facebook and have been talking on and off since.

 

In the last couple months we have been talking much more frequently and have been seeing each other more in person both in group settings and once alone, I went to her house once to play video games and watch anime

 

In the last month or so I have begun to have feelings for her. Just before Christmas one of our mutual friends did a joke relationship status with her. At the time we were talking and she was telling me that she'll have to tell her family that its all a joke. As we were on the topic I thought it would be a good opportunity to ask her out on a date. It was over Facebook and I really regret doing so becuase the conversation that followed was quite peculiar.

 

I'm.fairly certain that she is quite new to the whole dating stuff. The responses support that additionaly.

 

I asked her if she wanted to go on a date with me sometime. She responded with

 

You like me !? :00

yeah sure that would be awesome c: and we can see how things go from there ?

 

I said yes and then suggested we go do something after new years as we are both real busy.

 

She then responded with.

 

Sweet ok

So wanna go something with others or just u and me ?? ^^

 

I was a bit startled by this response but I just said you and me if that's OK and I'll message her again sometime in regards to a date.

 

Come this weekend I saw her when a bunch of friends were going to the local arcade. We held hands at one point when we were walking to our destination which was great. I then noticed throughout the rest of the day she was also holding hands with 2 other guys. Now I'm.not sure if this is because she's unfamiliar with the formalities of dating (not sure if this is the right word to use here) or its just that she just goes along with how others interact with her.

 

This confused me alot. Why would a girl do this if she knows there's someone that likes her? I really don't understand. I haven't really given her a formal invitation and called her for a date, its all been online up until this point. Maybe I need to call her straight up and confirm with her a time to go out. I'm really not even sure if I should continue pursuing this.

 

Can anyone shed some light on this topic? I'm really not sure what to do

 

Thanks. And sorry for the lengthy post