BadMistakes Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 (edited) the last thread I wrote was way to long so I'm just going to cut to the chase. Me and my ex gf had long term relationship of 5 years (since 2011) around end of 2014 I sort of unofficially ended it, we used to argue about stuff a lot and I wasn't the nicest guy on the planet to her and our relationship was falling apart anyway for stupid reasons which I've learnt weren't worth it now. From november 2014 - march 2015 we didn't really speak to either much and at this time I didn't care much for her or what she was doing really, but then I began to miss her a lot and for her birthday I went to her house unannounced, she was alright with it and said she would start seeing me again but it'll just take time because of how things were. During summer time 2015 things got better and we were seeing each other, hooking up I guess and just talking on the phone etc. Now the problem is around october 2015 we stopped talking as much again and would see each other sometimes mainly hooking up and now it seems she's distanced herself from me a lot more than in summer time, in the summer she even told me she loves me and now we don't really see each other although we hooked up at my friends place on new years. How I feel now is I'm over extending myself I know every situation is different and mine and hers runs quite deep but I feel like shes pushing me away more than she was before, I think maybe I have become too needy recently? I feel like she is giving me too many different mixed signals, she says part of her thinks theres too much water under the bridge and I'm not sure if part of her wants to meet new people or not I've asked her outright what she'd want to do because how she was with me during summer and stuff but she says she really doesn't know...what does this mean lol? Edited January 4, 2016 by BadMistakes Link to post Share on other sites
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