Opholorius Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 OK, so my friends asked me for advice. I've decided to come here. I'm 28, bisexual, in a relationship with a great guy, mostly attracted to women, but some men as well, generally more romantically inclined to women and sexually inclined too. But in more recent years I've dated blokes, well, for the past 3 years anyhoo. Anyway, onto the main issue. I've got two friends who have issues with dating (referred to as A and B for anonymity). A is 28, last relationship was 2 years ago. He's tried meeting women through online dating, they click, but when he eventually does meet them they either want MFF threesomes (a turn-off for him) or demand he buy them gifts on the first date. The last time he met a girl via online dating, it didn't end well, she wanted an MFF threesome, the friend she'd brought along to the date was pretending to be there for her safety, but it was just an excuse to have an MFF threesome, he'd later found out from one of the girls' Twitter feeds (the girl he met via OKCupid gave him her Twitter, he followed her, and then was humiliated when the girl posted about not getting an MFF threesome). He genuinely liked her and they clicked, met up after 6 weeks.B is 29, his last relationship was 18 months ago. He is attracted to American, Australian, Indian and Asian women, but feels he has no real way to meet his ideal girl, or as he describes it, "his American Girl". He said he first started liking American women around 2007-2008, was fed up with the chavvy girls he'd dated who just wanted him for sex, showed no interest in him as a person, but an American woman he'd met in 2008 (who was a student at the time) showed interest in him, they met in a local pub, dated for 3 months, but he never saw her again, she went back to the US. Now he's asking me what's the best way to meet American, Australian or Indian women, he said it's too expensive for him to go to the US. He said he'd tried online dating, but no-one showed any interest in him, aside from one profile that was just a scammer trying to sell him Cialis (pretending to be a pretty girl). But, overall, he's not got relationship issues aside from a specific type of woman he likes and worrying over where to meet them. He said it's not like an "Asian fetish", it's just who he likes. --- I can't really introduce them to single friends of mine, since they're guys, gay/bi guys or gay/poly/bi guys, well, I go to gay bars every so often (you know, the Canal Street ones), and they're single guys, my friends mentioned above are straight blokes. My girl friends are in relationships or engaged already, so no dice there. OK, so now I've explained it to you, how would you help them? These 2 blokes are my close friends, and I've known them since I was around 19, so that's a long time. I'd appreciate your help. Thanks guys!! Link to post Share on other sites
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