Awkward! Let go or invite him out?

[shac]

We've met 29 days ago while I was searching for a job in another country throught a mutual firend.

 

When he met me, he knew I was seing somebody else and he thought we were in serious relationship. Which was not how it was. The other guy was a date and we made out on that party in front of everybody, but I've broke it off couple off days later and contacted the guy I am writing about.

 

We went on a date and got really connected. After that we hanged out couple of times. I've met some of his friends, the dates lasted like 48 h since he knew I will be gone soon.

 

I've never told the real reason why I came there, because I am a bit reserved person. I didn't even say my friend I came in search for a job and a vacation.

Basiclly he didn't knew my plans for living there one day soon, nobody did. I didn't want my friend and new ones to ask me questions since nothing was clear about my job and move out.

 

When I've came back, he approached me first and initiated contact. Couple of texts. Next time I've initiated contact like 3 times in a row, he responded and seemed interested.

 

Last week I've found out I will probably get a job there. Since I was all and I've got adrenaline rush and texted him I am coming back soon, because I will probably get a job there soon.

 

He seemed really happy and shocked about it and told me that is brilliant.

 

I didn't reply to his message at all, since there was nothing to reply and I wanted to cool down on him a bit.

48 hours later I've replied. "Yes! It's brilliant didn't expect it."

 

My message to him was not delivered. I've thought he blocked me on whatsapp, but he didn't. He deleted his account! So he vanished from everybody. I've left it to that.

 

I am going there in 3 weeks and he knows the date when I am coming because he did replied to that I don't know If I should:

a) call him when I am there on his phone and see if his number is ok or he changed it. If he doesn't picks up, text him and see if I get a delivery report.

Basically just nvite him for a friendly beer.

b) ask my friend indirectly about him without telling him what really happened, since he knows we had a thing.

c) just let it go and forget him completely? just do nothing.

d) reply to him if he texts me

e) try to contact him a few days before I get there and ask him if he is alive and is he free like a "day after tomorrow" because I am already in town. (which I won't be yet, but I always like to know where I stand before I go somehwere or do something)

 

A guy has problems in his life lately (money, at his job...) and I think he is slightly depressed and feels bad in last few weeks since I've left. I know he is not depressed because of me. I think that is the reason why he vanished from everybody.

Edited January 4, 2016 by shac