Brokenheartohio Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 (edited) I've been married for 22 years to my wife in those years we have two children a 15 year old and a 22 year old the 22 year old is my daughter the 15 year old is my son I am 41 and she is 39 my wife has been very loyal person throughout our marriage she's only been with me 39 years in 3/3 years there's been argues fights but no hitting no it was just all verbal but to get to the story 3 years ago we separated and it was all because of me I turn to drugs I hid it from her. I got arrested and was thrown in jail well I moved out to my parents house and the last year I found out she was with two guys that you just used her or recently she got sick and its been unemployed and I've been there helping her out to pay the bills and through this all I still love her even though she's still been with the two guys I haven't been with anyone in three years in my heart I still love her and a lot of this is my fault because I never took her out we never really did anything cuz we was financially strapped we never had money to really go out and do anything but throughout the 24 years that we was together it seems like everytime we argue or fall out was because of financial situation. I was in and out of jobs economy was a crash but through it all week at our house and her sister moved in for a little bit with her two kids and seem to kind of go downhill from there what the last year me and my wife she just won't open up about us she just keeps bringing up the 20 years that we never went out and done anything now that I got a good job you know I tried to explain to her that you know I love her but she just want on open up about you know where she wants to divorce I just told her that and I can't keep doing this I love her running to get on with my life she needs to make a decision. I explained to her that I didn't care that she's with two guys you know but I was the one that I guess open that door I mean it's in my mind but I love her I just need some people out there are two kind of they been in a situation when will the marriage still work or should I just let it go and go on with my life any answers would surely help Thanks Edited January 5, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 First, your post is very difficult to read without any periods and sentences so I'm not sure I fully comprehend everything but I'll give it a go. You're out of jail and living with your parents and currently separated from your wife? Correct? You still love her and want to work things out? Correct? But she slept with two other men while you were in jail? Correct? Is she still dating or sleeping with these men or are they gone out of her life? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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