Is she genuine? Or a gold digger

[BettyDraper]

LOL.

 

If he makes significantly more than you, and still wants to split the check then he's a cheap skate and a tight ass.

 

Real men treat their women to dinners. Not go 50/50.

 

Although men shouldn't be expected to buy make up or groceries.

 

And I definitely insist on paying some ofthe time my bf takes me out..but I like the fact that he strongly prefers to treat me.

 

I feel if a man is crazy about you, he should WANT to treat you to meals.

 

Asking to go 50/50 and split checks when he makes significantly more than you isn't romantic or manly.

 

I agree with this. I have dated some tightwads in the past who made more money than I and it was a turn off. Miserly people are selfish because they are also stingy with their emotions. Real men like to provide and part of that is paying for dates.

 

I don't see what's wrong with a woman being spoiled by her man as long as she is spoiling him in return. My husband spoils me and I do the same for him. It has been that way since we were dating.

[Dirt]

I'm so glad to see I'm not the only one who feels this

 

 

 

Well I also get spoilt with affection, compliments, quality time AND I don't have to buy me own meal on dates.

 

My boyfriend has been doing poorly financially since moving states. In 4 months he's :

- never wanted me to pay for dates. Although he cannot afford regular ones.

- 500 dollar necklace and pandora bracelet for our first Christmas.

- whenever we have gone to the mall, he has treated me to: a 120 dollar skirt, a 70 dollar bag and a 50 dollar dress.

 

 

He splashed out on 1000 dollar hotel suit as a welcome home gift when back from overseas.

 

 

So even men on average to low incomes can at least treat a lady to a date occasionally.

 

 

 

 

 

Men that cannot afford to treat a woman to a date shouldn't be dating.

 

 

 

 

I would never settle for a guy who asked me to pay for my own meal on dates. There are many that PREFER to treat.

 

And I bet your bf doesn't have much in the way of savings and a secure financial future.