GuitarMan1984 Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 Hi hello , I am writing this cause I have no other option . I feel helpless as no one will help or understand . I will let you know what happen . 3 years ago . I was involved with at the time a separated woman although she was still married legally . We moved in together over those 2 1/2 years we grew apart cause she could not manage money and handle keeping a job . long story short when it came close to me moving out she wanted to talk and I didnt she ended up assaulting me cause I refused to speak . I moved out july 2015and we still kept in contact . 2 months around October he husband was in jail for allegedly beating up his gf . She ran to him and comforted him and I felt something was going on . So I told her I think Im going to date cause I felt she was becoming closer to him . I found out later she ended up having sex with him and I was right after all . He became staying with her and eventually moved in and then they moved into a apartment and he is paying her way because she got injured and cant work . I feel sick and feel like I want to keep fighting cause I love her . There are signs that she shows me that she loves me too , but she is living with him . He is seeing a woman as well but I feel like there is no hope cause he controls the situation cause he is paying the bills has her there etc . I dont know what to do . I love her so much and feel very uneasy about starting completely over after having such history with this woman I love . Maybe I am just a fool but I strongly believe it will work . Has anyone ever been in this situation or know anyone who went threw similar situation ? I need advice or something or someone to give me hope . Perhaps there is someone who dealt with the same scenario . If so please someone respond . Thank you , Some one who is suffering Link to post Share on other sites
mmmike Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 Hi hello , I am writing this cause I have no other option . I feel helpless as no one will help or understand . I will let you know what happen . 3 years ago . I was involved with at the time a separated woman although she was still married legally . We moved in together over those 2 1/2 years we grew apart cause she could not manage money and handle keeping a job . long story short when it came close to me moving out she wanted to talk and I didnt she ended up assaulting me cause I refused to speak . I moved out july 2015and we still kept in contact . 2 months around October he husband was in jail for allegedly beating up his gf . She ran to him and comforted him and I felt something was going on . So I told her I think Im going to date cause I felt she was becoming closer to him . I found out later she ended up having sex with him and I was right after all . He became staying with her and eventually moved in and then they moved into a apartment and he is paying her way because she got injured and cant work . I feel sick and feel like I want to keep fighting cause I love her . There are signs that she shows me that she loves me too , but she is living with him . He is seeing a woman as well but I feel like there is no hope cause he controls the situation cause he is paying the bills has her there etc . I dont know what to do . I love her so much and feel very uneasy about starting completely over after having such history with this woman I love . Maybe I am just a fool but I strongly believe it will work . Has anyone ever been in this situation or know anyone who went threw similar situation ? I need advice or something or someone to give me hope . Perhaps there is someone who dealt with the same scenario . If so please someone respond . Thank you , Some one who is suffering Sometimes an Ex will come back, sometimes they won't. The point is EVERYONE goes through heartache in relationships. EVERYONE. Yesterday was a terrible day for me where I felt sick about my break up, it felt like my head was in a vice grip. But today is better. You will have good days and bad days. Let her go. She's with him now. Let her figure things out with him and you just improve yourself. Just remember: We all have felt heartbreak. Everyone of us that have ever loved. This too shall pass as they say. I hope you feel better soon. I hope the same for myself. Reading about everyone else here that is hurting is very comforting. All in the same boat 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Love the k12 Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 That's tough! I feel for you. We're all suffering through these horrific breakups. If Ive learned anything, those kind of ppl will only bring us down with them, but we are better than that. In my opinion you're better off without her. You sound like Like me very compassionate, patient and way too forgiving! You deserve to be happy! Go find you're better half, she's clearly got issues. Wish you the Best of luck my friend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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