one date, no mutual interest, three months later he contacts me

[HansonGirl]

I wanted to share this story in case any guys think this is acceptable (although in this case I wasn't interested in the guy anyway so it really doesn't matter with respect to him). I went on a date with this guy from online dating about three months ago. I wasn't into him and he actually did not seem like a really nice person to me. Well I assumed the lack of interest was mutual since after the date he never texted or called me either. So we had our date and went our separate ways with no contact whatsoever.

well all of a sudden, three months later, he has messaged me online and asked me about a common interest we had. I responded just to answer his question. Then he messaged me a few more times. And then he suggests we get together sometime in the new year.

 

Ok, I am a pretty laid back person so at first i said ok whatever. But then i thought about it for a second and thought, wait, why would i waste my time hanging out with this guy I am not into, and I don't know what his intentions are with us getting together. But on TOP of that- even if I had been interested - this guy is really rude. He doesn't contact me until THREE MONTHS after the date. (He hadn't even texted after the date to say, "that was fun, it was nice to meet you" or anything like that). If I accepted this behavior and went along with it, I would be showing him it's ok to disrespect me like that. So the next time he contacted me, I told him I wasn't interested.

 

So guys, don't have a date with a girl and disappear for months and expect her to hang out with you, ESPECIALLY if you ain't all that and a bag of chips.