Maia Posted April 2, 2001 Share Posted April 2, 2001 Are there any females out there who wouldn't mind sharing how there first time was....just so that I know what's coming to me? Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted April 3, 2001 Share Posted April 3, 2001 Are there any females out there who wouldn't mind sharing how there first time was....just so that I know what's coming to me? it's different for every person out there. for some people, it lives up to their expectations of what they wanted their first time to be like, for others, it doesn't. in my situation, i didn't know what to expect. i remember thinking afterwards, "oh, okay, is that all there is to it?". bear in mind, i had never watched a porno (or read one) and i really had NO IDEA what i was doing or supposed to do (although i knew what sex was of course). i just took in what was happening and...well, the word "starfish" comes to mind it didn't hurt me, although i believe it does hurt some girls for the first time. i think a lot of that would depend on how relaxed you are. when i lost my virginity, it wasn't something we planned to do on a certain day or at a certain time, it just happened. you know the saying, "one thing led to another"? well, that's what it was like for me. in hindsight, i think that has a lot to do with why i was relaxed and not all tense - i wasn't anticipating the moment. but like i said, everyone is different. just make sure it's with someone you trust, and try to remain relaxed when the time comes - there's no need to rush things. and it's not scary at all! Link to post Share on other sites
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