ladydesigner Posted January 15, 2016 Share Posted January 15, 2016 As someone else pointed out, in this case she IS more like the BW, because after confirming he is married she has decided to end the affair rather than continue it. As to the Forensic Files comment... While there is always cause for concern to be wary of anyone in the dating world, if we're going to consider bodily harm or murder for this poster we should consider it for ALL posters who find themselves in an adulterous relationship. Basically all of our advice, whether they are just starting out in the affair, in the middle of it, or are upon DDay would be "run, girl, run!! Your a$$ is gonna get shanked!!" I agree with Horton. Mail the information or pay someone to deliver it to her, and wash your hands of the situation. You've done your deed, and at that point it would be time to move on. PS. I am a fan of "Who the Bleep did I Marry" myself, although I did find myself binge watching Forensic Files on Netflix last week, lol. Omg my whole M is "Who the Bleep did I Marry" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
pianomanwoman Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 That your self deception is making you jealous of his wife. You felt like a fool because he lied to you. Now you have a chance to escape his unhealthy hold on your heart! His wife is stuck with him. Only you know how he really is in real life. I agree with Popcicle. Broom him. NC forever is what he really deserves. If you want him to be free of his wife wait like I did for 4 years. I asked him for commitment and he said. "I wish I could but I just met a girl in Spanish class and want to see if it works out with her" ???!!! Huh? After 15 years of NC ( I changed my number in 2003), Guess who got my new number and called last week? So Don't go out with him again not even as friends, don't tell his wife, and most of all don't expect a liar like him to be your happiness. Get an available man who is unattached and see what happens next! I wish you love! Link to post Share on other sites
cozycottagelg Posted January 17, 2016 Share Posted January 17, 2016 Late to the game on this thread... Respectfully, Forensic Files and other shows are the most RARE instances of how affairs play out. His wife deserves to know who she is married to. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Clavel Posted January 18, 2016 Share Posted January 18, 2016 I already have ended it. When I had confirmation that he lied. I just haven't told him that I'm done. I don't want to see or talk to him. then don't. endof. i would not tell anyone. you made a mistake and maybe you should, own it. why does his wife have to pay for what you two did? she just had a baby (niece) ha! leave her alone. if you do the big reveal/dday, he might get his ass whopped but more then likely after the dust settles and they get a round of std panels and MC, they will stay together. while i have you here, how do you know she doesn't know? cuz i knew plenty. they just didn't know i knew. lutz and, why did he meet so many people in your life? seems reckless, your behavior, maybe show caution next time, because, i gotta tell ya, i think he's crazy. over the border crazy. leave them alone. good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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