Would you consider touching a girl's thigh creepy?

[ClitYeastWood]

I don't know why, but when I'm seriously attracted to a girl and feel this sort of magnetised attraction (from my side, at least) I'll want to touch her.

 

It so happens that I touched this girl on her thigh. She didn't seem creeped out herself, in fact we went to grab a coffee together with her friends and I playfully hit her upper arm and she did it back to me.

 

We do gaze at eachother a lot too.

[ExpatInItaly]

It totally depends on the context.

 

Some random guy or a guy I'm only friends with? No thanks.

 

Someone I'm interested in or dating? No problem.

[ClitYeastWood]

It totally depends on the context.

 

Some random guy or a guy I'm only friends with? No thanks.

 

Someone I'm interested in or dating? No problem.

 

We've spoken a handful of times.

 

I've touched her a lot of times, but she never pulls away or anything not even the time I touched her thigh.

 

 

How would you react in both cases?

[carhill]

Ha, ha, the stories I could tell.

 

OP, ask her on a date. She knows how to say no, or yes, or prevent you from, or encourage you, touching. Do what you do. She's not a delicate flower. Heh.

 

Caution: If she's like some of my untold stories, she could be married or have a boyfriend. Happens! Good luck!

[d0nnivain]

We've spoken a handful of times.

 

I've touched her a lot of times, but she never pulls away or anything not even the time I touched her thigh.

 

 

How would you react in both cases?

 

 

If we haven't at least kissed, keep your hands off my thighs!

[todreaminblue]

i cant say i would be comfortable with it...unless i was dating the person ...i dont normally like to sit that close to a guy i dont know that they can reach out and touch my thigh..why would you unless you were flirting for something to happen..might not be a good response you get.......deb

[smackie9]

unusually similar thread, questionable integrity of this poster. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/cheating-flirting-jealousy/565076-would-you-call-rejection

[MidnightDream]

If we haven't at least kissed, keep your hands off my thighs!

 

I agree with this 100%, as soon as we've shown a mutual attraction to each other, a hand on my thigh is totally fine.

 

I can find it either romantic and sweet (as in we are sitting somewhere and he just wants to hold me in some way) or sexual if it's more towards the top of my thigh.

 

But if a boy I just met done that, or a friend, I'd freak the **** out.

 

One of my guy friends, who's a bit overly touchy and feely always strokes my cheek in a jokey way but it comes off super creepy because he does it ALL the time. It got to the point where I was like unless you're my boyfriend, get out of my comfort zone!!