Kristine Posted January 10, 2016 Share Posted January 10, 2016 Okay well my job is going well. I bought a new used car, with my awful credit a miracle occurred really. I was able to get rid of the car he stuck me with via trade. And now I have a reliable vehicle. I really feel it's a symbol of how my life is improving. He did e-mail me, somehow found out about my job. Then he gave me a bunch of jerky comments, typical. Anyway I was much less phased and that's progress! All in all leaving him was a good decision. However my trust in men is deeply damaged and I really don't know if I can ever recover from that part of what he's and the previous men in my life have done. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kristine Posted January 13, 2016 Author Share Posted January 13, 2016 Things just keep improving! I just accepted a permanent job offer! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
lgspot Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 Congratulations!!!! Stay away from him and I'd wager life will continue to get better. Best wishes 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Methodical Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 Being a jerk, making rude comments, etc. shows his lack of maturity. You're on the pathway to freedom and an overall healthy state of well-being. Stay the course. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kristine Posted January 14, 2016 Author Share Posted January 14, 2016 Oh we are done. I had a realization today. I treated him like a normal man. His thinking, his way of living is anything but normal. Normal people can be trusted. Because normal people are generally honest. He's nothing like that, he manipulates the system, lies to get his way. I gave him control over things because he screwed my thinking up so much I couldn't think clearly. He was an addiction in my life not a love. I'm more than better off. But sadly my hellish experience weighed heavy on my daughter. Pray for her. She's struggling emotionally now. Like the guard she held up was released. I regret the day I met him. Link to post Share on other sites
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