stuff Posted January 10, 2016 Share Posted January 10, 2016 So she broke up with her rebound pretty soon saying she wants to be alone right now. Last night we were together and ended up having sex again; I told her that i would like to start things again but it was not my priority and if the only way for me to be in her life was by being friends, we'd better move on. She seemed happy to hear those words but "after the deed was done" she looked confused and said that she didn't want to hurt me and the thing that happened didn't change her feelings for me, to which i replied that i didn't expect anything to change. Should i text her today? Ask her to come over and talk? Or should i give her space? I intend to take things slowly but want to make sure she understands how i feel. Should i not contact her for a bit? Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyEmily77 Posted January 10, 2016 Share Posted January 10, 2016 So she broke up with her rebound pretty soon saying she wants to be alone right now. Last night we were together and ended up having sex again; I told her that i would like to start things again but it was not my priority and if the only way for me to be in her life was by being friends, we'd better move on. She seemed happy to hear those words but "after the deed was done" she looked confused and said that she didn't want to hurt me and the thing that happened didn't change her feelings for me, to which i replied that i didn't expect anything to change. Should i text her today? Ask her to come over and talk? Or should i give her space? I intend to take things slowly but want to make sure she understands how i feel. Should i not contact her for a bit? From what she said, she understands and is happy with how you feel, if how you feel is friendship and moving on. Doesn't look like she has any interest in more at this point. In your shoes, I'd probably not even consider taking it slow and satisfy myself with the friendship offer. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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