smile95 Posted June 4, 2005 Share Posted June 4, 2005 has anyone ever broken up missed the ex so much and built them up and only remembered the good(eventhough you know there was bad) and then got back and was so happy at first and then it hit you that this guy/girl will never change and then end up breaking up again????? I seem to only remember the good, but I know that I was so unhappy. I wonder if it is a control thing? He has it by ignoring me and I want it so I can dump him! Maybe it is rejection? Anyone ever break up over and over and get back over and over and finally ended it for good or they did and you moved on? Link to post Share on other sites
Craig Posted June 4, 2005 Share Posted June 4, 2005 It's kind of like putting bad milk back into the refrigerator and in a few weeks taking it out to try again. If it wasn't good the first time, chances are it won't be good the second time unless BOTH individuals have done some serious work on themselves. Link to post Share on other sites
lindya Posted June 4, 2005 Share Posted June 4, 2005 Yes - I had the on-off thing where each time we got back it seemed even better than before. At first...but then same old problems always came back. It suited both of us to wear those "star crossed lovers" blinkers. Added a bit of drama to our lives I suppose, but it ended very messily and I definitely wouldn't recommend it. Craig has it spot on with the spoilt milk analogy. Sometimes though, it's more like "Nothing wrong with that milk, and I love the taste of it. Just a shame it happens to bring me out in a rash." Link to post Share on other sites
Author smile95 Posted June 4, 2005 Author Share Posted June 4, 2005 so weird how that milk is so appealing until you taste it again. thanks guys! Link to post Share on other sites
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