TheFurryD Posted January 10, 2016 Share Posted January 10, 2016 Hey this is my first post in this forum and I'm not sure what brought me here. I just know I'm hurting and I wish I was different. I'm not victim in this story my wife is. I was the bad husband who lied to her constantly. I was the one who never stood up for her. I broke every promise I ever made. For 3 year I took for granted. I thought we were married so should always be with me. I knew she was unhappy and i kept promising her tomorrow will be better. That I will change , that I could make her happy. But deep down I knew I was full of it. I'm a porn addict who ruined his marriage. I dont deserve my wonderful wife. She was an angel sent to me to open my eyes on problems.I hate that hurt her. If wasnt so selfish I would have let her go long ago. I wouldnt have put her through the hell of loving me. Link to post Share on other sites
chicagoj Posted January 10, 2016 Share Posted January 10, 2016 Hey this is my first post in this forum and I'm not sure what brought me here. I just know I'm hurting and I wish I was different. I'm not victim in this story my wife is. I was the bad husband who lied to her constantly. I was the one who never stood up for her. I broke every promise I ever made. For 3 year I took for granted. I thought we were married so should always be with me. I knew she was unhappy and i kept promising her tomorrow will be better. That I will change , that I could make her happy. But deep down I knew I was full of it. I'm a porn addict who ruined his marriage. I dont deserve my wonderful wife. She was an angel sent to me to open my eyes on problems.I hate that hurt her. If wasnt so selfish I would have let her go long ago. I wouldnt have put her through the hell of loving me. Have you told her these things? Admitted your mistakes? Is she willing to go to marriage counseling with you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author TheFurryD Posted January 11, 2016 Author Share Posted January 11, 2016 she know we had these talks before and theres no hope for our relationship. She doesnt love me the dame way anymore. Ive made her into a miserable person. Im just ranting a bit just trying to vent a little. I dont have any friends or family to turn too. Link to post Share on other sites
howtomoveon Posted January 11, 2016 Share Posted January 11, 2016 My husband acted very similarly to you. He lied and lied to me, promised he wasn't lying, that he would change, but he didn't mean it. Watched so much porn we were hardly intimate together. I finally left him a month ago, even though I love him dearly. I wish every day he would tell me the things you've put on paper here. If you love your wife, fight for her. Don't give up. She may or may not be willing to give you a chance, but I know in my case, I would be so happy if he showed me that he cares, that he would fight for our marriage. Offer counseling, ask her what she needs from you, be it time, action, etc. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 11, 2016 Share Posted January 11, 2016 she know we had these talks before and theres no hope for our relationship. What is the current status of your marriage? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
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