Tressugar Posted January 13, 2016 Share Posted January 13, 2016 (edited) To those Loveshack members I've got an update for you. I'm finally divorced! Yay! Through some intensive therapy, I found out that I was a victim to a narcissistic disorder personality-my ex husband. Everything I thought and believed to be true was not even factual. Once I found this piece of truth that's when I really started to question my reality. Therapy has been a god send. Everything makes sense for once! For years I thought I was going crazy. In fact, my ex husband was gaslighting me. A very cruel sadistic game you play by manipulating the facts on trusting people. Now that he's gone, I see things for what they are and not what I am being told what I'm seeing. The final straw for me was when my ex husband tried to kill me. He actually left me for dead in my house. I believe if it wasn't for my next door neighbors I would be probably dead. Scary, but sobering thought for me. Especially being so close to a person who I thought loved me. Subsequently, he got arrested for a felony with intent for serious bodily injury. He got out of jail just in time to find out the baby that his ex gf gave birth to wasn't his. He was very upset with the girl for lying to him. And for his karma, remember he was successful in the triangulation to pit his two women to be at odds with each other? Instead of being grateful to this girl that was allowing him to stay rent free (after jail), he chose instead to mistreat her in the same manner he was dishing it to me. She was the wiser and threw him out of her apartment. I'm so much happier now. I can see life more clearly now. Even though I've lost a lot, I'm so glad that I'm alive. I'm still in therapy and probably will be for awhile. My ex has attempted to contact me through social media, but I've blocked him. I hear he's on the run...from what? I don't know or care to know. That's all good with me just as long as he doesn't run my way. I've surrounded myself with family and loving individuals. I'm slowly making a come back. Thank you for your support. Edited January 13, 2016 by Tressugar 3 Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted January 16, 2016 Share Posted January 16, 2016 What a great update. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sandylee1 Posted January 16, 2016 Share Posted January 16, 2016 Well done for getting rid of him. You can move forward and be grateful you don't have any reason to see him again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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