Natalie21 Posted June 5, 2005 Posted June 5, 2005 Hey guys any thoughts on this would be great... How can u tell whether a guy just wants to be friends or wants a relationship? Are there any specific "signs" to look for when he's too shy to say anything? Thanks for ur time
alphamale Posted June 5, 2005 Posted June 5, 2005 Originally posted by Natalie21 Are there any specific "signs" to look for when he's too shy to say anything? if there are no verbal ques then look at his non-verbal ques.
AndrewJ Posted June 5, 2005 Posted June 5, 2005 he starts acting like an idiot whilst in ur presence he ignores you he makes u dislike him... Im sure u can telll... come on babe u know the symptoms
XNemesisX Posted June 5, 2005 Posted June 5, 2005 About 99% of guys are only friends with girls for ulterior motives. Unless they are gay. Odds are, he wants to be more than your friend. at leats in my experience, almost every single guy I have ever befriended has really wanted to date me. That is why I stick to all female friendships these days..unless I actually like the guy back.
AndrewJ Posted June 6, 2005 Posted June 6, 2005 Do beleive what u say to be really true 99%. I think thats a bit rich
Marshbear Posted June 6, 2005 Posted June 6, 2005 Originally posted by XNemesisX That is why I stick to all female friendships these days..unless I actually like the guy back. Good advice XNemesisX. Men all over the world wish all women had this very same thought. Men and women can rarely be friends without the sex getting in the way. I commend you for your position. Peace...
greeneyedgirl23 Posted June 10, 2005 Posted June 10, 2005 hey andrew... Why do guys make you dislike them if they are interested? I have a post in here from a couple of months ago, and I have a wierd relationship with my best guy friend. That was the reason for my post. If you get a chance will you check it out? but in reply to this post, I wish I knew the answer too!
rakula Posted June 10, 2005 Posted June 10, 2005 About 99% of guys are only friends with girls for ulterior motives. Unless they are gay. Odds are, he wants to be more than your friend. at leats in my experience, almost every single guy I have ever befriended has really wanted to date me. That is why I stick to all female friendships these days..unless I actually like the guy back. Ok.. I guess I fit in that 1%. Very rare. One of my best friends is a girl. One of her other friends that never met me thought I was gay or something. Probably cause it sounded too good to be true that I was a her friend for so long.
AndrewJ Posted June 10, 2005 Posted June 10, 2005 Hey Green eyed, Im not sure why in my case the one i desire turns into a beauty that hates me. I guess i wouldnt have it any other way. What is the name of the post u are refering to?
AndrewJ Posted June 10, 2005 Posted June 10, 2005 Originally posted by greeneyedgirl23 hey andrew... Why do guys make you dislike them if they are interested? I have a post in here from a couple of months ago, and I have a wierd relationship with my best guy friend. That was the reason for my post. If you get a chance will you check it out? but in reply to this post, I wish I knew the answer too! Hey green, I read about your situation, How are things going with your best freind? Sounds tough , its obvious the guy is so into you. Hve you talked to him baout you two together?
whichwayisup Posted June 11, 2005 Posted June 11, 2005 Actions speak louder than words...Watch what he does and how he acts while around you. If he is into you, even in a shy way, you can tell. Look in his eyes, directly. See how HE reacts to you, does he touch you when he's talking to ya? If he is that shy, then YOU may have to intiate that conversation..Flirt abit and see how he reponds to that. Ha, you may even have to make the first move - The Kiss...
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