lino Posted January 26, 2016 Share Posted January 26, 2016 You have two beautiful kids to look after and they'll be your support for the rest of your life. Forget about women now. Link to post Share on other sites
ZHguy Posted January 27, 2016 Share Posted January 27, 2016 Hell you're not old. Look, I've slept with men much older than you, and one who's at least a generation older than you. Whenever I was with this certain man, I felt as if I was with a very mature man, but one who was like a bachelor in his 20s/30s. I realized then it was because of his attitude which allowed him to seem younger. Now I want to tell you something, I'm a guy who's several years younger than you, and I'm going through depression. I understand what makes us feel more trapped is knowing that there are certain stuff that will make us feel better, but we can't do them. Here's a list of things I can suggest which I'm not able to do right now due to financial issues or my busy schedule due to work/exams. 1. Therapy - I used to have a counsellor and he helped quite a bit. I noticed that the older that they were, the better they were. 2. Working out/taking sports - Working out will boost your confidence and shape up your appearance. Picking up something every other week may put your mind at rest... rowing, golfing, swimming, biking? 3. Surf the internet - surf for tips on how to be more approachable - 3 Ways to Be More Approachable - wikiHow - how to be good at small talk - How to Be Good at Small Talk: 8 Steps (with Pictures) - how to be good at conversations - One Simple Habit That?ll Make You Great At Conversations | Thought Catalog - how to approach women - How To Successfully Approach A Beautiful Woman - AskMen - and google's your oyster, please search away... there are many helpful and great links. I noticed after I went on one I started having longer conversations. These infosites do a lot to inform us about skills which we had no idea about. That's just be assuming that you have problems with being approached or approaching, because I do not know you that well. There's a whole section dedicated to that on this forum here Dating - LoveShack.org Community Forums, and there's also a self-improvement area., and this for getting dates http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/564463-my-beginner-s-guide-talking-women-getting-dates And here is the suicide hotline section which attempts to list all of the suicide hotlines in the world http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/coping/475952-suicide-hotlines Link to post Share on other sites
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