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Unfortunately change of employment isn't possible for another year because we're both PhD scholars waiting to write up our theses and as luck would have it, we work under the same supervisor, in the same lab! :(

 

Can you write your thesis on "The Effect of Arsenic on Soon-To-Be Ex-Husbands" :confused::confused::confused: ???

 

Mr. Lucky

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Can you write your thesis on "The Effect of Arsenic on Soon-To-Be Ex-Husbands" :confused::confused::confused: ???

 

Mr. Lucky

 

hahahahahaha!! :) I'm laughing so hard reading this!!

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Update:

The 'other guy' (interested in me; mentioned earlier in the post) flew across the continents last week. It was perhaps the best week I've had in a long long time since my separation.

 

I've known him 10 years now and he's been one of closest guy friends. He's been through the ups and downs with me.

 

It was such a refreshing change to interact with someone who actually cared about me. And suddenly it hit me hard what I had been missing in my relationship with my soon to be ex husband! I've been trying to salvage something where my husband never felt anything for me.

 

I feel like I have suddenly achieved detachment from my husband, simply knowing what genuine love and affection feels like.

 

:)

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Never marry someone who's not that into you! Marriage, with all its hardship, will definitely fall apart as there is no motivation for you to continue. And please, date this new guy. File for divorce and don't waste your life. Life is too short.

 

And don't try to win back your husband as he is already a lost cause. You don't need the whole pig just for a piece of sausage :rollseyes:

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