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How do you give a clue to man that jewelry would be nice. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and would like my man to buy me a nice sparkly. Doesn't have to be an engagement ring (although that would be nice too!) but something. I have shown him jewelry ads of things I like. I have even emailed him ebay items of jewelry. But nothing. He doesn't talk about it or anything. We live together have a 18mo child. We're pretty much married, but is there something else I should do? I'd hate to just blurt out " buy me jewelry, you unromantic idiot!". Any advice????

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I think you have done a fine job of giving clues. He is either very stupid, very cheap, very broke or just doesn't want to buy you any jewelry.

 

A lot of men buy their ladies jewelry to impress them...but since the two of you are practically married, he may see no good reason to do so. This could be a danger sign that he is now taking you for granted. You'll have to use your woman skills to keep him from doing that...if that's the case.

 

Since he's obviously not taking the hint or for some reason doesn't want to buy you jewelry, why don't you just go out and buy your own.

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I think next time a holiday/birthday is coming up, you should tell him exactly what you want. (Doesn't he ever ask you? All my previous boyfriends always wanted a point in the right direction.) Or give him a few options (i.e. these earrings, or this ring, or whatever.) If he doesn't take THAT hint, then he is truly clueless, in which case, I agree with Tony. Buy it yourself.

How do you give a clue to man that jewelry would be nice. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and would like my man to buy me a nice sparkly. Doesn't have to be an engagement ring (although that would be nice too!) but something. I have shown him jewelry ads of things I like. I have even emailed him ebay items of jewelry. But nothing. He doesn't talk about it or anything. We live together have a 18mo child. We're pretty much married, but is there something else I should do? I'd hate to just blurt out " buy me jewelry, you unromantic idiot!". Any advice????
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