bambi_4 Posted June 6, 2005 Share Posted June 6, 2005 My ex bf broke up with me a year ago. Since then we have still been in contact and have meet up occasionally. I had a month of nc with him which after that we got back 2gether for 1 month. He is always ringing me, sometimes 2/3 times in the day. I very seldom ring him. HE hasn't been with anyone since(which I know for a fact) and we haven't had as much as kiss(except for on the cheek or a quick kiss on the lips) in the year except 4 the month back 2gether. So we haven't had relations since we broke up. He can blow hot and cold but is always there for me. At least a few conversations in the week turn into flirting. I still have a lot of feelings for him and I know he has some for me(what kind, I dont know). We broke up because he got frightened of the relationship moving too quick. It pretty much overwhelmed him. He is younger than me, I'm 26 he is 23. My problem is I want the friendship to move on to something more but I dont know if thats what he wants or is ready for that?? Can anyone advice me as to what to do or what he might be feeling?? Link to post Share on other sites
Donburi Posted June 6, 2005 Share Posted June 6, 2005 If he is still wanting to be in contact with you, then it should be a good sign. Since he is the one who ended it though, I suggest you let HIM initiate the possibility of a relationship. If you begged and talked him into being with you you'll always wonder if he is with you only because you pressured him into it. Make sure you tackle the probs of why you guys broke up in the first place to avoid any heartache in the future. I believe a second chance at a relationship can definitely work, only if both are willing to. Just take things slow, and try not to worry too much. Relationships that start from friendships are usually the best ones. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bambi_4 Posted June 6, 2005 Author Share Posted June 6, 2005 Thanks Donburi. I know these things take time and the last thing he,d respond to is pressure. I'd just like to know am I wasting my time. Link to post Share on other sites
pretyangel Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 Bambi.........he is playing a game! Why do you even want to bother with someone that is not sure of wanting a relationship with you? He is not to young! As long as you so available to him, he will be around. So far as you knowing for sure that there has not been anyone else..............................................don't be so sure about that one! Live your own life , you do not need drama like this in your life and if you do than get some help! I wish you the best of luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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