Gaeta Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 Why he's playing with me..god Because you let him. There is no efforts in texting someone. He text you because he was bored with nothing else to do. He looked at his phone and text you because he knows no matter how ****ty he will treat you you will always answer him and always welcome him. Block his number, delete him from your social media. This man is laughing at you in your face don't you see it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted April 29, 2016 Author Share Posted April 29, 2016 Why do men say miss you when they clearly probably don't because their actions don't add up? When they tell you miss you first I mean. Link to post Share on other sites
Versacehottie Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Why do men say miss you when they clearly probably don't because their actions don't add up? When they tell you miss you first I mean. in the context of what has been going on with you and the guy you like, it means almost nothing. It's just a way to get you to "open the door". That's it. you should take it with a grain of salt....or way way way less than that. It means nothing. He is saying what you he thinks you need or want to hear to get you to pay attention. You are way too attached to this guy. He is giving you whatever is considered as eons below a breadcrumb. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted April 29, 2016 Author Share Posted April 29, 2016 in the context of what has been going on with you and the guy you like, it means almost nothing. It's just a way to get you to "open the door". That's it. you should take it with a grain of salt....or way way way less than that. It means nothing. He is saying what you he thinks you need or want to hear to get you to pay attention. You are way too attached to this guy. He is giving you whatever is considered as eons below a breadcrumb. I don't care for him anymore until he texted me again. I don't play games and its sad to use a word miss you if you really don't miss that person. So I'm just curious. I wouldn't tell someone I miss them of I don't. He could of said I was thinking about you. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 I don't care for him anymore until he texted me again. I don't play games and its sad to use a word miss you if you really don't miss that person. So I'm just curious. I wouldn't tell someone I miss them of I don't. He could of said I was thinking about you. men are results oriented. "I miss you" gets better results than "I think of you". Because they are stronger, women tend to give them more importance and forget to look that their actions don't add up. Men who say "I miss you" with no follow up action are manipulative or weak. Interested men act interested. They follow up. They call when they say they do and show up when they're supposed to show up. There's no force on the surface of this Universe that can keep a man away from a woman he's interested in seeing. Nothing. Anything else but facts are excuses and post rational justifications. Anyone on this site can create dozen excuses. don't reply, delete the number, the dude's a mindf*cker at worst or a time waster at best. You can do much better. Link to post Share on other sites
iphone_user1 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Well, I said that a few times just as a desperate last resource so she stays I don't fool around like that anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Versacehottie Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Same, same. He is just looking to get your attention. Saying what he thinks you want to hear. It's a pretty low bar, in context. He is treating you like you will fall for it. Some advice: stop filtering what others do through your eyes of what "you" would do. The world doesn't work like that. And you admitted, if I remember correctly, on your previous thread that you are not that experienced. If others chime in OR if you had asked this question on your thread or it was merged so that people could see the context, people are going to tell you the same thing they have already been telling you. It means little to nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 Well, I said that a few times just as a desperate last resource so she stays I don't fool around like that anymore. exactly. talking the walk is cheap, walking the talk differentiates men from scared little boys. Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 I'll give you a possible reason that might be the opposite of what you think, but still goes along the lines of it: Because he really does miss you... Like an addict misses their fix. And some women do this too, not just men. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted April 29, 2016 Author Share Posted April 29, 2016 I'll give you a possible reason that might be the opposite of what you think, but still goes along the lines of it: Because he really does miss you... Like an addict misses their fix. And some women do this too, not just men. So ego stroke? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted April 29, 2016 Author Share Posted April 29, 2016 Oh and in the text he also wrote that sweet and he likes that. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 we're no mind readers. Maybe ego strike. Maybe hope for more sex. Maybe just jerking your chain and knowing you're going to give him a plenty and plenty of headspace, tossing and turning it on all sides. when it's a lie. If he really did miss you, he wouldn't just say it. He'd do something about it. So... whatever he's after, he almost certainly won. If you want to gain the upper hand in this stupid game, delete the message, hell, delete the phone number and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 So ego stroke? I don't get why you interpreted what I said as another reason. It's about addiction. edit to elaborate: he enjoyed the chemicals that went through his body when he was around you and now they are gone. He misses that, hence, he says, "miss you." Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted April 30, 2016 Author Share Posted April 30, 2016 I don't get why you interpreted what I said as another reason. It's about addiction. edit to elaborate: he enjoyed the chemicals that went through his body when he was around you and now they are gone. He misses that, hence, he says, "miss you." OK I understand 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 Last update: So I find out he's into a woman his age and they are going on a trip together. They are from the same city too. I fell so fuqing stupid. You guys were right. He's still liking my photos and I don't understand why...I don't want to be friends with him. He's posting all the time about his lady. I feel like ****e...I don't get why he persued so hard..but never was interested. I'm dissapointed frankly..this keeps happening to me. I'm done with men. I don't get why he's still liking my photos when hes happy with her..I'm fuqing ignoring him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted May 3, 2016 Author Share Posted May 3, 2016 Sorry guys In just need to vent. I fuqing hate him and still like him if that makes sense. I hate how he led me on just to try and have sex with me and now I don't know what the hell he's thinking. I hate it! How did I miss hr signs? Maybe I didn't want to face the truth. Either way fuq me Link to post Share on other sites
katiegrl Posted May 3, 2016 Share Posted May 3, 2016 Sorry guys In just need to vent. I fuqing hate him and still like him if that makes sense. I hate how he led me on just to try and have sex with me and now I don't know what the hell he's thinking. I hate it! How did I miss hr signs? Maybe I didn't want to face the truth. Either way fuq me Britney hun... with respect, would you please just block him from your phone and ALL forms of social media and move on? Enough already. It's time don't you think? This guy should be nothing more than a mere blip on your radar, if that. Best of luck moving forward. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Britney25 Posted May 4, 2016 Author Share Posted May 4, 2016 Anyone else Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted May 4, 2016 Share Posted May 4, 2016 Anyone else You are asking for more input ? I would suggest reading the thread again, lots of wisdom in these 244 posts... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted May 4, 2016 Share Posted May 4, 2016 Anyone else Time to block him. He's liking your pictures to keep you on the hook. Hopefully he can get more sex. Nothing more. Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted May 4, 2016 Share Posted May 4, 2016 Anyone else keep looking. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted May 4, 2016 Share Posted May 4, 2016 Anyone else What do you need anyone else to say that hasn't been said in 17 pages of responses all pretty much telling you the same thing? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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