Zephylin Posted January 24, 2016 Share Posted January 24, 2016 I had a crush on this guy. We don't really know eacher, which is why I asked him if he wanted to grab lunch sometime cause I wanted to get to know him better. That's quite out of character of me, cause I'm quite shy and anxious, but at the time, it just felt like the thing to do and i got brave enough to do it. I didn't want to have a "what if" moment. I had been thinking about him a lot, a crush turned into an infatuation, which is another reason that drove me to asking him. If he said no, it would be the push I need to finally start moving on, you know? Anyway, I sent him a message and asked him, thinking the worst he could say was no. Well, he never responded. Turns out, for me anyway, that's worse. It said he saw it, but never any response. Which turns out to be worse than no. I know that the lack of response is most likely a him rudely saying no, but there's still a part of me hoping there was some other reason he didn't answer. Maybe there was a glitch and he never actually saw it? Maybe he did respond but it never showed up? This lack of closure makes me still think about him and has me hopeful. I need to stop thinking about him. It's not good. I know the process of moving on isn't an overnight kind of thing, but my thinking about him has been going on a while and doesn't seem to have calmed down. I've tried to push him from my mind, but whenever I'm not doing anything, like trying to go to sleep, he suddenly pops in my head. What should I do? I'm confused and frustrated :/ Link to post Share on other sites
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