Author Phoenician Posted January 31, 2016 Author Share Posted January 31, 2016 You are NOT respecting your wife. Read After the Affair, you can find a list of justifications in there, I think you've covered most of the list. Let me reconfirm an imp fact ,the last resolution since few month is great for kids, family , wife . there was no single incidance of obvious disrespect . If I want to cheat I have my own justification , do not need validation . I am proud of my self that I have not cheated. now I am playing on the edge of cheating i know . but move the idea that I will divorce from head ; I am staying and trying to find ways to stay . Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phoenician Posted January 31, 2016 Author Share Posted January 31, 2016 How did you feel before you found out that you will "lose your libido"? Was there always this incompatibility between you two, or is this something new now that, as you put it, "your testosterone is now through the roof"? There is something about what you posted that doesn't make sense to me, and maybe you can clarify. You say you are going to clubs and dancing , etc. with other women, but it doesn't sound like you are having sex with them, as you are indoors with people around. You use your wife's low sex drive to explain this behavior. How does her lower sex drive rationalize you going out and doing what amounts to cheating on her on an emotional level? What it sounds like it boils down to is (a) you want to cheat, and (b) you want to blame that on your wife. I haven't in 18 years and will not cheat now , my T level is now on the roof, it will become near zero after I make the operation : removal of Tumor from pituitary gland ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phoenician Posted January 31, 2016 Author Share Posted January 31, 2016 I am staying for my family I love my family . Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts