DimensionX3 Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 Ok my ex and I were together for a year and a half and were very much in love. Things were pretty good, we both went down to the same colllege and we slept together everynight and decided to move in together the next semester of school in the fall. Well you see she always told me that she couldnt live without me and that "she loved me too much" like she really did eveything for me. I had it made she cooked breakfast, did my laundry and was the greatest g/f ever but she also had her downsides as she would be very dramatic in public sometimes which really pissed me off. Then i started being an a**h*** to her sometimes, saying things that hurt her and saying mean things wgeb i was drunk especially; I think the reason was that she always forgave me without being really upset at all, so I just continued doing so, ya now kinda to see how far i could take it i guess because i never thought she could break up with me, she wanted to marry and was literally obsessed with me she even said i was one the most attractive guy shes ever been with. Well shes 19 and im 20. On top of all that her brother saw us argue one time when i had a fit over something stupid and was being an ass. So her parents hreally hate me. Well eventually this past November, we had a really terrible night prolly the worst ever and it was all me being a nutty drunk. The next day she talked to her parents and wanted to break up right after. She cried and cried and cried. She said she had no choice because I was such an a**h*** and I was I really was. Its been 6 months and she has told me she doesnt like any other guys andshe tells me shes over me and all this stuff. We havent gone longer than 2 weeks without talking but one reason is because we have an excuse to talk because we still split the rent until the end of July. I just dunno what to think, I think im just gonna let it go, but we connected on every level possible like the same sense fo humor and everything it was crazy. the only problem is her parents hate me more than anything. and I know she would be afraid to get hurt again if we tried to go out again. When we broke up I begged and pleaded for her not too and I realized she felt kinda in control and it also pused her away. She became really bitchy to me and cared nothing for my feelings. Now that i dont call her anymore, shes so much nicer on the phone. She calls now The last 2 times we had lunch we had little kisses and her guard has been let down alittle but its very obvious as she quotes that she doesnt wanna see me much because she doesn't wanna get attatched again. Its like when I'm real nice now she gets turned off kinda and acts like a bitch, but I when I act like i dont give a **** she wants to talk again but if i do that, it seems as if she wont think that I've changed from being an a**h*** sometimes. She said she even stopped talking to a guy because he was too nice. I know she still has immense feelings for me inside but I dunno what to do. What do you guys think of this? Link to post Share on other sites
scarlyjones Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 Sounds to me like you're pretty mean to her. What reasons do you have for how THIS is going to be different? And how do you plan on fixing it with her parents? Thats one of the things you need to be thinking of too. THAT little tidbit if said in the right way could really go far with her. It would show that you are thinking of others too,...not just you and what YOU want. Link to post Share on other sites
Author DimensionX3 Posted June 7, 2005 Author Share Posted June 7, 2005 Well I know I owuld treat her so much better, the way she deserves to be treated. Well I never have contact with her parents so I really cant do anything. We have lunch here and there but she doesnt tell them for sure. Her parents know I also have been introuble before. She also was extremely dependent on me which she realized once web broke up. I just hope as time passes that all she thinks about is the bad times, because i know i have no chance if thats the case. We were inseperable, ahh its kinng me. I dunno what to do or think. Girls are weird, she doesnt like when guys are too nice so its like i cant act too nice now or i look needy, cause when i was real nice after she broke it off she would be a real bitch towards me. Link to post Share on other sites
scarlyjones Posted June 7, 2005 Share Posted June 7, 2005 There is a HUUUUUUGE difference between being "nice" and being "thoughtful" or "kind". Dont be a pushover. Just be cute. Link to post Share on other sites
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