Does he like me?

[esing]

I need you guys' help.

 

I am interested in a guy and i'm not sure if he's into me.

 

He's an incredibly social guy. As soon as he sees friends, he goes up and talks to him, put his arms around them all buddy like.

He is like a social butterfly and can go from group to group, speaking to both different men and women, engaging in conversation.

 

However, I've noticed, that he has basically never gone up to me and initiates a conversation. Which is odd, seeing how I am also an extremely outgoing chill, but also bubbly person. He really has nothing to be 'afraid' about.

 

Once, I went up to his best friend and gave him a great big hug, and he just looked at me a bit.

 

We've known each other for 3 years. We are friends and have many mutual friends. We go to the same church.

 

Last autumn I tried to create events and I hung out and got to know his friends. I engaged in his interests (soccer and coffee)- things that I'm not otherwise into I've written to him on messenger, sent him snaps. I'm trying to show I'm I like him... I've gotten to know his family better too!

 

Here's another odd thing: Once I was walking with him toward a restaurant along with others, but they were infront of us. I just noticed a live band on the street and commented how it felt like being in another county with the live music (something I would say to anyone, I am very spontaneous), but he just mumbles a few words saying how his friend is alone walking, so he hurries off to his guy friend in front of us. Leaving me a bit confused.

 

Once in the restaurant we engaged in conversations with different people. But once we talked we had a moment, I felt. Our eyes locked for a few seconds, and it was like a out of body experience where i felt like i jumped into his eyes and saw his beautiful soul.

Later, when he was leaving he said goodbye to everyone and gave me a hug..

 

Yesterday we sent snaps and we sent 4 pictures to one another and when we texted he sent a few flirt emojis.

 

I just feel a few things he has done/hasn't done is odd, seeing how he is a very social. Like an alfa male, leader, sure of himself kinda guy.

I think he hasn't been in a relationship before... that's my guess.

 

What would you guys say about his behaviour?

 

Do you think he likes me/has an interest in me?

[jonwashington]

I always try to look at both sides of a situation. Like hey if thus person likes me that's great but if not that's OK too I won't break my own heart With false thoughts. Like if I like a girl and I'm with her by myself and all my friends are in front of us I probably wouldn't walk away to get my friend but he could just be very nervous because he likes you and doesn't want to say anything stupid then again I don't text girls that I don't like flirty Emoji's also. But if you guys text and you do Snapchat with each other. You should ask him if he wants to do something with you just the two of you guys seems like you know what he likes to do just try it it can't hurt especially if you guys of been already hanging out a little bit that's the foundation hanging out with friends and then you hang out with each other alone. It's a good sign that you guys locked eyes and he kind a looks at you and if he's looking at you while you're hugging his friend he's probably thinking I was she was hugging me.