mira80 Posted January 29, 2016 Share Posted January 29, 2016 Is it possible to win back your ex if they still love you even tho they broke up with you after declaring they just don't see a future between us. Long story short, my gf of 3 years broke up with me last week. It was really hard for her to do too. But she was just sick and tired of waiting for me to change and she's not getting any younger. But she still loves me. So I'm wondering if I can use that love somehow to still win her back? Any advice of if possible and how would I come abouts doing so? Link to post Share on other sites
Scarlett.O'hara Posted January 29, 2016 Share Posted January 29, 2016 You said that she was tired of waiting for you to change, how exactly? Does she want different things then you do? If you want her back then you have to be prepared to meet her needs, and whatever it was that she feels was lacking from the relationship. She needs to see that things have changed and that you are willing to take the necessary steps to make that happen. You need to decide if that is really what you want. It would be foolish to get back together if nothing has changed because the same issues will still be there, and it will end the same way. My advice would be to take some time to think it over carefully before contacting her. Link to post Share on other sites
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