Unkownreason Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 Quite a while ago I found out by accident my husband likes transsexuals, he was searching on google for transsexual escorts in our area, I also found out an old friend of his was an escort who he had spoken to and deleted messages. I tried to let it drop but I'm very insecure now and it's making our lives hell. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 What did he say when you confronted him with this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Unkownreason Posted January 30, 2016 Author Share Posted January 30, 2016 What did he say when you confronted him with this? Said he was just looking and didn't want an escort and to the speaking to an escort said he was just asking how she was. Link to post Share on other sites
Stereotypical11 Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 Are you open to the idea of this? He is who he is, don't take it personally we all have secret fantasies he probably had these from long before he met you, still he's with you. He may never act on it, but would you be willing to let him... You have two choices confront it together or pretend you never found out as hard as that may be. I hope this helps. Link to post Share on other sites
RySant Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 If you believe that, then I am a straight guy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 First, get tested for STDs. Immediately. Second, why does he need to even SPEAK to a transsexual to ask how "she" is doing? There is obviously more there than he is telling you (hence the need to be tested for diseases). Third, get yourself into Marital Counseling - your marriage may not last much longer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Unkownreason Posted January 30, 2016 Author Share Posted January 30, 2016 No I'm not open to letting him have a transsexual escort!????? I've already been tested I got tested twice, it was over a year ago this happened I just can't get over it. She isn't just a transsexual she's a well known escort he was talking to, you don't just talk to an escort to see how they are do you? Link to post Share on other sites
Stereotypical11 Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 Then I'm sorry to say we can't help with that you have chosen to stay with him other than confronting him to find out if he ever actually did. You either stay with him and find new things to focus on maybe spicing up your own sex life a little or you leave him and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 30, 2016 Share Posted January 30, 2016 She isn't just a transsexual she's a well known escort he was talking to, you don't just talk to an escort to see how they are do you? Since one typically pays an escort for their time, it would be an expensive conversation... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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