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16 and 20 year old having sex: is this a problem?


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The sex was legal, but I am fearful of how this is going to look in court.

 

Why aren't you more concerned about how you might have scarred this girl with your actions than "how it will look in court?"

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The crime is stalking and harassment. But in the report it was emphasized she was a "juvenile" and we had consensual sex.

 

If everything has been consensual and legal within your jurisdiction, then why are harassment and stalking charges being brought against you? Two and two are not adding up.

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If everything has been consensual and legal within your jurisdiction, then why are harassment and stalking charges being brought against you? Two and two are not adding up.

 

He went to her house after she said she wanted nothing more to do with him.

 

Keep in mind, he drove several states away to do so.

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He went to her house after she said she wanted nothing more to do with him.

 

Keep in mind, he drove several states away to do so.

 

How do you remember all this about me?

 

But do you think the court will be biased against me due to the age difference?

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I could be OK with this a 16yo and a 20yo under strict conditions:

 

*The couple are in a strong and loving relationship and have been dating for a number of months

*He doesn't push her to be sexual before she's ready

*The girl's parents know the boy and are OK with the relationship

*The boy is mentally stable and respectful of her boundaries

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As it appears there's some stalking going on right here in this thread, in clear violation of our rules about topical content, I'll close this up pending a moderation review. Let me be clear, I don't like the way things are going here and they're going to change, one way or another. That's fair warning. For those who posted within guidelines, thank you. Thread starter, reprise this thread or any like it and you're gone.

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