Becki Posted June 9, 2005 Share Posted June 9, 2005 Well, I thought instead of writing about whats going wrong in mine and my best friends relationship, I'll tell ya all about our friendship and how it came to be, because I love him so much now and I want everyone to know!! I think we first met in about year 8 (about 13/14 years of age), we used to be in the same form for things like PE, and although we never really got on, we ended up talking because he fancied my best friend (i still remember now him saying he fancied her because when she wore pigtails she looked like Britney Spears!) I remeber thinking how lame he was! We never used to really get on that well, and generally me and my other friends used to annoy him, and he used to roll his eyes everytime he saw us comin near him! This probably continued for a year or two, and then we were in Geography together in yr10! we started talkin more, and eventually i ended up sittin next to him (the original people we were sat with ended up havin to sit together elsewhere!) and we started having so much fun in class, im surprised we got any work done!! in april three years ago, i asked my mate lucy to start a job with me, she did it for one week and she got appendicitus (sp) and so i had to ask Saxton to do it. He agreed, and the fun in the classroom carried on at work, with us continually being told off for the glasswash room being covered in ice-cubes and suck like! then near christmas time of the same year, he confessed to me he thought he was bi-sexual, (i have to add that he already had two best friends at this point, and didnt trell them till nearly two years later..because he was taking his boyfriend to a party!!!) he never actually confessed to being gay, but over the last couple of years we both knew it anyway!! and now, were both 19, and i love him so much, i dont know what i would do without him! as some of you may have read, i split up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago today actually, and because hes been there for me to cheer me up and help me carry on as normal, it feels so much longer than just two weeks! we have the same attitudes to things, the same sense of humour, and everybody says that we literally "bounce" off each other! most likely he will never read this, but he knows all this already! i really wouldnt be half the person i am now without him! and now (hopefully in the next couple of weekends) going to get matching tattoos, theyre sorta stars..but not quite, and theyre done in purple and blue (both our fave colours) and mine fades from purple to blue, and his visa versa! so theres my wonderful friend for you all to read about!! now everyone should tell me all about your best friend and why you love them so much! Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 9, 2005 Share Posted June 9, 2005 Originally posted by Becki so theres my wonderful friend for you all to read about!! now everyone should tell me all about your best friend and why you love them so much! Errr, I think most of us are here to complain about our love lives, not praise our friends But, since you asked and no one else has answered yet.... I met my best friend when we both moved to this city for work, and we have stayed friends since. I was there for him when he split with his gf (they got back together though - he's marrying her) and they were there for me when I had all the trouble with Juliet. And the exciting news.... they're getting married soon and I'm part of the ceremony! and now (hopefully in the next couple of weekends) going to get matching tattoos, theyre sorta stars..but not quite, and theyre done in purple and blue (both our fave colours) and mine fades from purple to blue, and his visa versa! I'd think twice about this - seems cool now to have a matching tattoo with your gay male best friend, but may not be so easy to explain to future boyfriends... or to your grandkids when you're 70 Link to post Share on other sites
millefiori Posted June 9, 2005 Share Posted June 9, 2005 I want a gay male best friend, too. Reading this just made me envy you. Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted June 9, 2005 Share Posted June 9, 2005 Yes. Gay guys make the best friends for women!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Becki Posted June 9, 2005 Author Share Posted June 9, 2005 the matching tattoo's thing..yeah i might decide when im 70 i dont want it, and any future boyfriends of mine have to appreciate my friends! otherwise they arent gonna be my boyfriend! I have plenty of tattoo's, so this one small one to share with my friend is hardly gonna make that much impact on my body, its just gonna sit snugly away from my other stuff! and i know this is a forum for people to talk about bad stuff! but why not shine a little light here and there:P oh and gay best friends are the best! though im sure i'd still love him just as much if he was straight! Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 my best friends: steph is the sister I was meant to have in my life ... she's been my biggest emotional support since I met her in high school, the one who does things to make me laugh or smile when I need it, and the one who tells me I really do have stinky siblings! She was my sanity when my mother was dying, then later when my dad was being a complete jackass chasing after a married woman my age. And when it looked like I wouldn't be able to get home in time for my mom's rosary at the funeral home, Steph told me not to worry, that she would be "me" for me, then catch me up on things when I finally did arrive. in the next couple of weeks, she and her family leave Texas for Connecticut, where her husband took a job transfer, and the idea of her being so far away kind of hurts. But hey, come autumn, it's going to be really really great because we've got tentative plans to get together up there to take in the scenery! other best friend is ralph, a college roommate who is pretty much the person I consider my soulmate. He's funny, very very smart and knows me better than I know myself. He and his wife live across the state, so I get to see them from time to time. This is the guy who I plan on rooming with again if our spouses predecease us. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Originally posted by Becki any future boyfriends of mine have to appreciate my friends! otherwise they arent gonna be my boyfriend! You're young. You might review this philosophy in a few years. and i know this is a forum for people to talk about bad stuff! but why not shine a little light here and there:P Good point Link to post Share on other sites
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