"what do i do to get her back, do i believe what she says?

[phsplayer]

i'm only 15 so this may seem pathetic to some people. My girlfriend just broke up with me to take a break from us. we were going out in a very serious relationship for about a year and 3 months. she says she still loves me but she is seeing another guy. she says its for something knew, and to see if her feelings last.

 

She says she needs her space from talking about us dating for a lil bit. every once in a while shes in the mood to talk things over. she swears to me we'll be back together and that she loves me. we see each other every now and then and tho she is with another man she still hugs me and we hold hands, and i get an occasional kiss.

 

i'm scared i'm gonna lose her for some reason no matter how re-assuring she is. i'm worried that eventually she will just stay with this other guy. she says they wont last long and that her feelings for him will never be as strong as hers are for me.

 

i am willing to wait. and i understand that if she just needs something knew for a while. but how long is the right length to wait. some people say a week some say no more then 2 months.

 

i miss her to death and i love her more than anything else i've ever known. i have millions of memories with her i cant walk down a street or pass a place that we dont have a memory about or in. i've had so many firsts. so young we gave our virginity to each other and that has held us up a lot i think.

 

idk what to believe cause i dont see how she could give all our love and attraction away. i dont know quite what to do. i need advice on what to do to lure her back. i have surprised her with flowers and hope that kind of thing helps. but i dont want to just dangle on her string till she decides she wants me back.

 

what do i do to get her back and what do i believe?!?!?!?!?!

[chaos70]

First and foremost, you have been in this relationship for 1/15 of your life so far...and you have 60 years average more left in you.

It may seem like the end of the world, but it isn't.

But best bet it is to not reinforce the fact that you are still wanting her. If she has another boyfriend, you already have an answer for now...you are second on the totem pole in her love life. Not #1. You'll find a girl who will put you at #1. Be yourself...don't be the guy who is after a girl who jumps back and forth between you and another guy. When she realizes she made a mistake, it will be her loss...don't lose time (you have so MUCH more time).