jk1983 Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Right...i've been really good friends with this girl for a couple of years, she has a boyfriend who, to put it mildly, is a bit of a loose cannon. About a month ago the girl and myself were out at a bar when she suddenly kissed me, which to be honest came as a complete shock. We went back to hers and she told me that she'd fallen in love with me, she's really attractive and we get on amazingly. I want to be with her. The problem is that her boyfriend is heavily into drugs, he's often suicidal and relies on this girl alot. She says she wants to leave him but is scared of what he'll do if she does. We both really care about this guy. In the last week i've seen her a couple of times and she seems really off with me, it's doing my head in, i'm so in love with her but above all i'm worried about losing a great friend! Any help or advice would be hugely appreciated Link to post Share on other sites
ImaManDammit Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 You need to take a step back. She may have kissed you in a moment of vulnerability. She needs to decide what she needs to do. I know you care for her, so the only thing you can do is tell her you're there for her, and let her make the next move. Get involved, and you will be in even worse shape. Link to post Share on other sites
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