My ex blocks me on FB, unblocks me, then blocks me again. WHY?

[RobTaylor10]

I'm beginning to think that the thing she cant say or the thing I don't know is that she cheated on me.

 

 

She claims met this new guy after we broke up but Im not sure I believe it. To say that she loved me and then 3 weeks later jump into a relationship with him and still be in one speaks to me. Not to mention, she never wanted to have sex or do anything with me. Even the last month of our relationship, she would never let me sleep over and never even really wanted to cuddle anymore.

 

 

She always said she was super against cheating, but its usually those who say that who you have to be careful of

[Brando]

I'm beginning to think that the thing she cant say or the thing I don't know is that she cheated on me.

 

 

She claims met this new guy after we broke up but Im not sure I believe it. To say that she loved me and then 3 weeks later jump into a relationship with him and still be in one speaks to me. Not to mention, she never wanted to have sex or do anything with me. Even the last month of our relationship, she would never let me sleep over and never even really wanted to cuddle anymore.

 

 

She always said she was super against cheating, but its usually those who say that who you have to be careful of

 

 

 

Vent it brotha. That's all ya got! It's move on time bud. The usual advice...NC 100%, gym, friends, family, post here, therapy if need be, and whatever makes you happy outside this girl.

 

It hurt, it's heartbreaking...ultimately it's a learning experience. TRY not to over analyze and start getting excited about the future. It's you time. Time to transform into whatever you want to become. Be kind to yourself and pursue whatever dreams you want. There will be more woman in the future.

 

I've said it many times on here...everyone is "the one" until they aren't...

 

Good luck! I'd drive that 10 miles to find a new grocery store too.

[RobTaylor10]

Sometimes I think maybe its not that I miss her, its just that shes changed. Id like to share this part of the story if you don't mind giving an opinion on this either.

 

 

So in the first month of our relationship, my ex was always wanting kiss and cuddle and she would get on top of me and so on. She was the first to initiate sex with me.

 

 

One night, I was seducing her and she got uncomfortable. She told me about how her stepdad touched her when she was little and it still haunts her a little bit. We continued to have sex over the next month and she seemed fine. After the first month, it all stopped. The next 5 months we dated, we never had sex again.

 

 

For the second month, we would still fool around, but even that stopped. After the 2nd month, everything changed. She wouldn't shower with me, she wouldn't change in front of me because she claimed that "I looked at her like a piece of meat" and she wouldn't pleasure me at all. I was allowed to touch her but that was pretty much it. And if we were getting close to have sex, she would suddenly get out of the mood or say I was being too rough which is a bunch of BS

 

 

I confronted her about it. She lost her virginity when she was 15 and had sex with her previous 2 boyfriends no problem. I asked why I was different. She said because she didn't take those relationships seriously. That didn't make sense. Why would you not want to make love with someone who you are seriously in love with?

 

 

Anyway, she broke up with me basically because she said I wanted sex too much and it was making her uncomfortable. I only wanted sex like once a week max. I would've settled with once a month.

 

 

With this new guy she has, according to a mutual friend I asked and she doesn't know about, her and her boyfriend now have sex all the time.

 

 

Why the hell was I different?

[Brando]

Sometimes I think maybe its not that I miss her, its just that shes changed. Id like to share this part of the story if you don't mind giving an opinion on this either.

 

 

So in the first month of our relationship, my ex was always wanting kiss and cuddle and she would get on top of me and so on. She was the first to initiate sex with me.

 

 

One night, I was seducing her and she got uncomfortable. She told me about how her stepdad touched her when she was little and it still haunts her a little bit. We continued to have sex over the next month and she seemed fine. After the first month, it all stopped. The next 5 months we dated, we never had sex again.

 

 

For the second month, we would still fool around, but even that stopped. After the 2nd month, everything changed. She wouldn't shower with me, she wouldn't change in front of me because she claimed that "I looked at her like a piece of meat" and she wouldn't pleasure me at all. I was allowed to touch her but that was pretty much it. And if we were getting close to have sex, she would suddenly get out of the mood or say I was being too rough which is a bunch of BS

 

 

I confronted her about it. She lost her virginity when she was 15 and had sex with her previous 2 boyfriends no problem. I asked why I was different. She said because she didn't take those relationships seriously. That didn't make sense. Why would you not want to make love with someone who you are seriously in love with?

 

 

Anyway, she broke up with me basically because she said I wanted sex too much and it was making her uncomfortable. I only wanted sex like once a week max. I would've settled with once a month.

 

 

With this new guy she has, according to a mutual friend I asked and she doesn't know about, her and her boyfriend now have sex all the time.

 

 

Why the hell was I different?

 

I don't have an oppinion or the desire to disect her reasons for not wanting sex from you. Maybe she was cheating, maybe she has issues...don't know, maybe someone else will chime in on that.

 

Move on. Stop asking people about her sex life. Stop worrying about who, what, why and so on. You would have settled for once a month sex? Come on now...why?

 

Find a girl who reciprocates your feelings, wants to bang your brains out every chance she gets, and won't leave you.

[Simon Phoenix]

Sometimes I think maybe its not that I miss her, its just that shes changed. Id like to share this part of the story if you don't mind giving an opinion on this either.

 

 

So in the first month of our relationship, my ex was always wanting kiss and cuddle and she would get on top of me and so on. She was the first to initiate sex with me.

 

 

One night, I was seducing her and she got uncomfortable. She told me about how her stepdad touched her when she was little and it still haunts her a little bit. We continued to have sex over the next month and she seemed fine. After the first month, it all stopped. The next 5 months we dated, we never had sex again.

 

 

For the second month, we would still fool around, but even that stopped. After the 2nd month, everything changed. She wouldn't shower with me, she wouldn't change in front of me because she claimed that "I looked at her like a piece of meat" and she wouldn't pleasure me at all. I was allowed to touch her but that was pretty much it. And if we were getting close to have sex, she would suddenly get out of the mood or say I was being too rough which is a bunch of BS

 

 

I confronted her about it. She lost her virginity when she was 15 and had sex with her previous 2 boyfriends no problem. I asked why I was different. She said because she didn't take those relationships seriously. That didn't make sense. Why would you not want to make love with someone who you are seriously in love with?

 

 

Anyway, she broke up with me basically because she said I wanted sex too much and it was making her uncomfortable. I only wanted sex like once a week max. I would've settled with once a month.

 

 

With this new guy she has, according to a mutual friend I asked and she doesn't know about, her and her boyfriend now have sex all the time.

 

 

Why the hell was I different?

 

Sorry dude, none of this matters. All of this is you inventing excuses and reasons not to move forward. You can't control why she is the way she is, you can only control you. And that's not something you are doing well right now, so you need to concentrate all of your efforts on that, not in psychologically dissecting her.