Author papagal Posted February 19, 2016 Author Share Posted February 19, 2016 Maybe it's as simple as she knows you're cheating and this is her futile attempt to "drain your tank" before she goes. Do her a favor and tell her it's not working ... Mr. Lucky hahaha Mr.Lucky..it is definately not the case...she trusts me 100% i have no doubt. its only me who has the reasons not to trust her Link to post Share on other sites
bobwhite007 Posted February 19, 2016 Share Posted February 19, 2016 Hi I'm almost sure that my wife is cheating. she is doing it when she goes to visit her parents in her hometown and its with someone from her past. I never caught her in action but lets say that there is at least 1 interesting sign of behavior that makes me be more sure my intuitions are correct: every time before she goes to visit there she is extremely horny and we do sex every day when she is initiating it very passionately. needless to say that during the rest of the time she is not really into it. It is also the general attitude which is extremely helping and kind without the usual annoying daily arguments. she looks happier. when she is back all is back to routine. And i asked myself why is this? specially the part of the sex - i have many speculations but would first want to read your comments. Many Thanks! IMO if you think it she is Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted February 19, 2016 Share Posted February 19, 2016 hahaha Mr.Lucky..it is definately not the case...she trusts me 100% i have no doubt. its only me who has the reasons not to trust her It is possible that she also knows that you cheat despite you not thinking she does. This may be why SHE justifies her actions (if she truly is cheating) as okay because you are cheating. Women are excellent at hiding what they know, too. Do you think she will look at you funny or say stuff that lets you know she knows? IMO you may think she is cheating because you are getting away with cheating. And if she is, so what? YOU are. You both need to get together and reconnect....or disconnect and move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
spanz1 Posted February 20, 2016 Share Posted February 20, 2016 Sorry dude. No red flags here. You need more than that. 1. Has been taking more of a personal interest in the way she looks or a dramatic change in the way she dresses. . I would want to look in her suitcase to see what type of clothing she is taking along. Slacks, and granny panties are fine for mom and dad. Sexy lingerie, corsets, thigh high stockings, etc....and you might want to invest in that PI 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted February 21, 2016 Share Posted February 21, 2016 I get the feeling that once in a while someone comes along with a non serious attitude to engage our worthy forum members in a discission about a seemingly serious problem facing them but then show their true colours in the manner in which they lead the discussion forward. This topic started off with a request for help but after the OP got meaningful responses he changed the tenor of the discussion around to try and justify his own desire to cheat on his wife. In the process he has managed to involve the forum members in a wild goose chase just so that he can keep people engaged in an infructuous discussion going nowhere. The OP mentioned he had more indications his wife was cheating but he hasn't revealed anything, just left it hanging deliciously in the air! I would think that if he is not prepared to take some decisive action soon then it may be better to leave him to his own devices to sort out his problems as best he can. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Fleur de Lis Posted February 22, 2016 Share Posted February 22, 2016 Maybe she's thinking she's giving you your fill of sex while she's away to lessen the chances you might stray. If she knows that you are not 100% fulfilled in your marriage's level of intimacy, she's worried you be tempted to look elsewhere while she's away. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted February 22, 2016 Share Posted February 22, 2016 Maybe she's thinking she's giving you your fill of sex while she's away to lessen the chances you might stray. If she knows that you are not 100% fulfilled in your marriage's level of intimacy, she's worried you be tempted to look elsewhere while she's away. I think that is a lot more likely, now that we know the OPs thoughts on monogamy and cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
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