JackTheRipper1888 Posted June 11, 2005 Share Posted June 11, 2005 Hi, This isn't my first post on this site about this girl, but for a year and a bit there was a girl in my life, it was on and off but back in November she dumped me after i came out of hospital which was very disrespectful, anyways we agreed to remain friends but i think i only agreed because i was too naive to think that maybe i would get her back which was a big mistake. Anyway in April things between us got so well, she was even gonna take me back but i spoilt it, mainly because i wasnt over the fact that she cheated early on in the relationship, and also fact that she left a few times, but since April she acted hastily towards me, we would argue constantly and in the end i got so fed up i broke off the friendship. Another thing was that she said she felt as if she "needed me" which is scary because if you feel you need someone then your feelings toward that person are not normal, so you can see from my point why i left. Anyway we used to go on another forum site and she posted a message on there about me saying that she kept me in her life because she though she needed me but since i gone she realises that she don't and that its an utter relief with me gone, this kinda upset me, but if she really didnt care, she wouldnt wanna share telling everybody how she feels. So why exactly is she doing this,GIRLS if you can help lol. One girl i spoke to was in a similar situation and she said that shes hurt that ive left so its much easy for her to hate me, so please can i have your views. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted June 11, 2005 Share Posted June 11, 2005 The two of you did not get along. You ended the relationship. You ended the friendship because her behavior possibly frightened you, or at least her "needing" you did not settle well. You are making things worse by keeping tabs on her through the internet. You will never understand her actions through analysis. Your questions can only be answered by her, if she wants to answer them, and if she chooses to tell the truth if she does. It is best not to ask her any questions, and best to stop keeping tabs on her. She is in the past, and it seems like that might be a good place for her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JackTheRipper1888 Posted June 11, 2005 Author Share Posted June 11, 2005 Hi, I don't keep tabs on her, when me and her split and ended up not talking before i used to go on a site which she didn't like to go on, i made lots of friends there, when i was posting a message she posted one after my message, i had no idea she still used the site. She has made attempts to try and talk to me and even being abusive to some of my female mates on the site. I left with very good reason, some of her other bofriends have left her because they said they she was "too clingly and needy" im glad i left but why is she still causing trouble, i obviously have a good reason for leaving so why won't she leave me in peace? Link to post Share on other sites
scarlyjones Posted June 11, 2005 Share Posted June 11, 2005 Whether you will admit it or not,...YOU havent left the relationship in peace entirely either. Why dont you simply let this go? Who cares why she does what she does? Let her do it. If anyone has a brain in their heads shes talking to,..they will pick up on her vindictive attitude anyway. If they dont,...then you dont need those types of people in your life any how. So let sleeping dogs lie. Dont let her rent space in your mind the way you are now. The sooner you stop caring why she does what she does,..the sooner you get mentally healthier and maybe meet someone else more suited to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JackTheRipper1888 Posted June 11, 2005 Author Share Posted June 11, 2005 Originally posted by scarlyjones Whether you will admit it or not,...YOU havent left the relationship in peace entirely either. Why dont you simply let this go? Who cares why she does what she does? Let her do it. If anyone has a brain in their heads shes talking to,..they will pick up on her vindictive attitude anyway. If they dont,...then you dont need those types of people in your life any how. So let sleeping dogs lie. Dont let her rent space in your mind the way you are now. The sooner you stop caring why she does what she does,..the sooner you get mentally healthier and maybe meet someone else more suited to you. I do admit it, but partly my trouble also was that me and her once were close and she is like kinda my first true love so it also makes it difficult too, i really cared a lot for her, but was just shocked and hurt to see her say them things about me, but i don't have no regrets because it was for the best, i started a new life and enjoying myself...so maybe im on the road to recovery ) Link to post Share on other sites
scarlyjones Posted June 12, 2005 Share Posted June 12, 2005 Mind if I ask you what you do for a living? Im just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JackTheRipper1888 Posted June 13, 2005 Author Share Posted June 13, 2005 Originally posted by scarlyjones Mind if I ask you what you do for a living? Im just curious. Yeah i work in a local retail shop and im into musical theatre im getting training for singing acting and dancing, im from London, England by the way. Link to post Share on other sites
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