im just another teen who needs help because ive fallin in love with my ex...

[Ohio_isforLovers]

okay to start of off...I went out with my ex for awhile untill we both decided that it didnt feel right to go out anymore...Oh yea my ex lives right in front of me... lol..Soo yeah and like after we broke up we were hanging out constantly....Like talking everday and this been going for a year...Then all of sudden i get a txt message from her saying tat im going out with ur friend...And im like shocked...This guy looks like ****ing shrek..lol,,Every gurl thinks hes ugly and scrawny..Plus hes a high school drop out...Well she lied to me saying tat she had no feelings about him and she told me tat he looked like a rat because before she started goign out with him because I talked to her telling her tat ive heard things between u and this guy...Well theyve been going out after a month know..and i kant take it anymore...It just bothers me to know tat shes goign out with this guy...Ive talked to her while shes been going out with him and i told her why she lied to me..All she said was "srry"...and i told her" i thaught u liked me?" and she said yea i did for over a year and i got tired of waiting..So i moved on...And im like wait hold up...How am i suppose to know this...U never talked to me about this..and she just broke down crying... Well latly ive talked to her freinds...and they told me tat she still likes me..oh and like she told me the only reason i go on aim.."Is because of u i love talking to u"...And she left me this away message saying..."I wish i could fall in love again beacuse i would fall in love with you" I just dont know wat to say know...Im just confused...I love this gurl with my heart and like the wierd part is tat she my nieghboor! Soo pllz u guys help this poor soul out? I just dont know wat to doo..

 

Im freaking 16 so give me a break with the typos..lol Thnx yall!

 

[fundamental]

Hey man... in the end, Shrek got the girl. I think you are more upset that she is taken now, and you feel like you were not given a fair chance. During the year you hung out with her, did you ever let her know how you felt? Could be that she is trying to make you upset with this new guy/your friend?

 

To me, it seems like you must of done something intentionally or unintentionally to make her think you do not like her anymore. So, she finally decided to move on instead of not knowing what is really going on between you two. She still has feelings. The situation would have been better if one or both of you would of spoken up about it--especially since you guys were close friends hanging out all of the time.

 

You can either follow your heart and continue to try to win her back, or read and the bizillion No Contact threads.

[Ohio_isforLovers]

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During the year you hung out with her, did you ever let her know how you felt?

 

 

Yea..She knew that i liked her...

[fundamental]

Then what did she get tired of waiting for? Did you ask her back out?

[Ohio_isforLovers]

No i didint...

 

But i heard she still likes me...So i danno if i still kan get her back

[fundamental]

well, if she still likes you, that also means you still have a chance. however, if she turns you down, it probably won't be because she doesn't like you, it will be because she will think you don't like her. you waited a year and then when she left you wanted her. so, she may be hesitant.

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Oh i almsot forgot....

 

Yesterday i was talking to her on aim and she told me that "ive been poping up in her head latly"...

Like ive tried to NC and all...But she kept on wanting to talk to me..Its like she misses talking to me..She says she dosent kare if u stop talking to me....But like 3 days after that she ims me...While i was in Nc i went to the pool with my friends...Geuss who i see there...My ex...I tried to ignore her..Shure i said hi but tatts it...She looked soo piised offf! She was sitting on a chari just staring at the ground with her arms crossed..Like she wanted me to talk to her..Oh and she started making fun of me to my friends...And like when i was talking to these girls that i was frineds with at the pool...I would see her staring at me for little glimpse seeing what i was doing...

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Anyone got any pointers?

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Ehhh...This sux.....

[fundamental]

You should of talked to her.

[fundamental]

Talk to her next time.

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

boii lol ok so u love this girl now that shes not with u after u had a full year with her?? wtf lol well why dont u talk to her and tell her how ufeel ..u love her dont u.. did you just figure out u loved this girl? is because she is taken and u want what u cant have?

[Ohio is for lovers]

okay look this Ohio_forlovers!

 

Umm just yesterday..My ex broke up with this guy and she sent me a comment on my xanga..

saying this..

 

"okay you know what know you can talk to me because im not goin out with him anymore so hopefully it wont be awkward......soo sometime we should hang out outside like neighbors should dooo....

 

mwa <3 your neighbor"

 

Soo yea...

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

hmmm....so she wants to hang out with you again..ok hang out with her have fun its abvious that she misses hanging out with u and the first thing she had in mind was u after the break up... do u talk to her online so u can ask her what happened between her and her ex??.. i say that you should take things slow and be friends with her right now go out to eat go to the park the movies somewhere ..lol its funny how she says "the way NEIGHBORS should" lol

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Woah...

 

uhh yesterday we hunged out..She told me she broke up with her ex because she still had feelings for me..Well tat was one of her reasons plus he was annoying...We ended up hooking up..tats basically it...

 

U think i should ask her out...

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

wow omg thats a great start lol.. umm well things are just starting so dont rush it ok.. maybe give it a weak or two.. make thought of where things are going go out more and then you can ask her out.. i guess u have youre second chance lol....dont lose it.. im happy things turned out well for you.. i wish i had ur luck..

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Yea...Well tmrs is her B-day...Im was thinking of askign her out tat day....Hmmm?

[strange love]

Very impressive little dude how did you manage to pull all this off?

Last time you wanted to buy her a gift or you had bought her gifts, now u have her hanging out with you im impressed, I think i should ask you for advice.

 

Now you can totally give her a gift but you should surprise her some how. I think theres some website you can go to called 1001 romantic ideas that you might want to check out., maybe you could do something a little extra special...

whatever just an idea.....

 

I am serious on the advice thing, since your so young your brain isnt muddled by logic as my is. Id be honored if you looked at my thread and gave me advice, in as much I can help others fraid I cant help myself.

 

ciao

[strange love]

asking her out

 

well..

what you should do is ask her what she has planned for her birthday

be a bit suave.. Unless has she asked u to her party? or is she even having one?

U kind of having her coming to you now and pursuing you and you want to keep the game like that... do u get the idea??

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Ummm well about the party..Shes having a suprise party...So she dosent know...

[Ohio_isforLovers]

Its been awhile since i posted an update...

 

But during her 16th birthday his ex showed up and he jumped me with a friend of his...

She was there when this was happening, all she was doing was crying..Anyways...I get jumped by him then she gets pissed of on her ex and tells him to not ****ing talk to her ever again...Im like okay..I guess this is my chance....

But i danno yet if i should wait a week or so and invite her to the movies or sumtni like tat..Then ask her out...I just danno..Some big things been going on since her birthday..Wow wat a birthday she was having...

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

iguess u should ask her out to the movies tell her that u wanna go see a movie and if she wants to go wit u.. then i think u should ask her out.. it seems to me that she does care about u still.. she got mad at her ex for touching u and she stood up to him and told him nt to talk to her again.. its obvious she cares for u.. so just do wut ur heart tells u..