What are men's true thoughts on looking at your wife/gf in the nude?

[wildpair711]

women are always insecure especially after having children. I adore and love my wife and LOVE seeing her nude or in sexy outfits and am happy when other men compliment her as she things I am biased! Have encouraged her to let me take nude photos of her and share them with others which she enjoys and she even went to Playboy casting call about 5 years ago. I have posted her pics on internet sites and she loves to read the comments - makes her feel good about herself as comments are coming from strangers and not me!

[Who_took_my_name]

To be honest I think many men, myself included, don't see what you see. You see your wife not what your wife thinks she looks like. We've got two kids and my wife's body has changed, her stomach sort of sticks out now but I find it ridiculously sexy, why? Because she's the mother of my kids! According to her (apparently) her breasts have gone "floppy", I still think she's incredibly sexy and have no idea what she's talk about. I think I see her as more than what she looks like if that makes sense?

 

I can understand why women are uncomfortable with how they (perceive) they look as I've got issues with negative body image but I think is men get a bad rep of wanting our wives to look a certain way.

 

Now, maybe if she paid me some attention I might feel better but that's another story...

[2.50 a gallon]

A work of art, beautiful

[waterwoman]

What a lovely thread

 

The media would suggest that no-one could possible love a less-than-perfect body - nice to know that it isn't always true.