any stories about crazy exes?

[HorseFry]

Hello all, I'm new here. This seems like an awesome place to come to get advice and just general knowledge when it comes to relationships. I'm 24, my BF is 25. He is my first relationship. We've been together for a little over a year, and we live together. I do love him, and he claims to love me lol.

Anyways, his ex gf is still in love with him. Early on in our relationship, she called him, and told him how she still loves him, and would leave her husband to be with him. I do not think he should've even kept in contact with her. I wish he didn't but I can't control who he talks to. He told me about all the times she's contacted him, except for one time. he kept that a secret, and didn't tell me until recently. I should mention, they've been exes for 3-4 years now. Apparently, she called him one night and told him once again "I still love you..you should leave your girlfriend so we can be together" he said "I'm not going to leave my girlfriend to be with you" and her response was "okay but if you ever break up, just know I'm here" ugh I can't stand her, and I've never met her. She disgusts me.

I honestly think she does this to get pity or attention from him. A few months back, she messaged him and said she didn't have long to live, because she was recently diagnosed with, and I'm not making this up "psoriasis of the liver" I about died from laughing when she said this. She is so desperate, that she's lying about having a skin condition but on her liver. Luckily this woman who's in her mid 30s, lives in another state. Hahahaha

[Emilia]

It's cirrhosis of the liver. My father died of that when it turned into cancer.

 

You are saying she is crazy but your bf loves the attention it seems. So clearly she knows him well. I'm always amazed when the woman is blamed.

[Lobouspo]

It's cirrhosis of the liver. My father died of that when it turned into cancer.

 

You are saying she is crazy but your bf loves the attention it seems. So clearly she knows him well. I'm always amazed when the woman is blamed.

 

 

And if she is truly suffering from cirrhosis, no laughing matter. I would not wish it on my worst enemy.

[mike_89]

You are saying she is crazy but your bf loves the attention it seems. So clearly she knows him well. I'm always amazed when the woman is blamed.

What makes you say that? Nothing in that story conveys that he loves her attention. She is crazy, and the woman IS to be blamed. She lies about dying from a liver condition for heaven's sake and you're suggesting the BF is the one to blame because he loves her attention?

 

OP I would suggest that you ask your boyfriend to tell her not to contact him again or to block her number. The lying about dying is some really disturbing behaviour.

[Emilia]

What makes you say that? Nothing in that story conveys that he loves her attention. She is crazy, and the woman IS to be blamed. She lies about dying from a liver condition for heaven's sake and you're suggesting the BF is the one to blame because he loves her attention?

 

OP I would suggest that you ask your boyfriend to tell her not to contact him again or to block her number. The lying about dying is some really disturbing behaviour.

 

Because he keeps in contact with her. He is in a relationship, he knows this bothers the girlfriend. He even hides some of the contact from her. That's because he wants to keep his ex in his life. Whether she lied about being sick or not is irrelevant and it could be true since the OP doesn't know what this illness is.

[TheArtist]

Either you misheard it as psoriasis and thought she was after attention, or it is actually cirrhosis of the liver, which, while sounding similar, can be fatal. If she's making up either of those for attention then she's very dumb indeed.

[ChickiePops]

Hello all, I'm new here. This seems like an awesome place to come to get advice and just general knowledge when it comes to relationships. I'm 24, my BF is 25. He is my first relationship. We've been together for a little over a year, and we live together. I do love him, and he claims to love me lol.

Anyways, his ex gf is still in love with him. Early on in our relationship, she called him, and told him how she still loves him, and would leave her husband to be with him. I do not think he should've even kept in contact with her. I wish he didn't but I can't control who he talks to. He told me about all the times she's contacted him, except for one time. he kept that a secret, and didn't tell me until recently. I should mention, they've been exes for 3-4 years now. Apparently, she called him one night and told him once again "I still love you..you should leave your girlfriend so we can be together" he said "I'm not going to leave my girlfriend to be with you" and her response was "okay but if you ever break up, just know I'm here" ugh I can't stand her, and I've never met her. She disgusts me.

I honestly think she does this to get pity or attention from him. A few months back, she messaged him and said she didn't have long to live, because she was recently diagnosed with, and I'm not making this up "psoriasis of the liver" I about died from laughing when she said this. She is so desperate, that she's lying about having a skin condition but on her liver. Luckily this woman who's in her mid 30s, lives in another state. Hahahaha

 

Yes, she is acting desperate, but your boyfriend is lapping it up with a spoon. Why is he still allowing her to contact him at all? Why does he respond? Why are you placing all the blame squarely on her shoulders when he is an equal participant.

 

Also, as has been pointed out above, cirrhosis of the liver is a very very serious and often fatal condition and it is nothing to laugh about. If she's lying, she's a sick puppy. If she's not, then I feel awful for her.