The family in law..

[Saf17]

Hey guys,

 

Sorry to be posting another topic. Quick situation for people who don't know. Three weeks ago my wife had an affair and we broke up. Four weeks before that my wife's sister left her husband (no proof, but all indications point at an affair.

 

So, me and my brother in law have both been chatting and trying to keep each other's spirits up and we were joking on Facebook. Yes, stupid but literally no thoughts went into it apart from to laugh and be stupid. We were trying to 'palm each other off' on random girls as a joke. My sister in law sent some vile texts. Now, I get it was insensitive and I should of thought about who it could affect. However, surely my life and jokes became mine when my wife cheated on me and I left? The texts REALLY hurt me and I've been crying for about an hour now. Apparently I'm now not allowed to contact my Mother in law at all and we had a good relationship, all because of lies My sister in law has said. Why do people have to be outright nasty? I'm a little sarcastic but I'm a good person who literally tries to be as nice as possible. I've even been really nice and polite to my wife every time she texts, just because I don't like being mean. Why is it okay to be nasty? How long is this likely to go on? I'm starting to consider moving away as the rumours my sister in law has been spreading has made random people I don't know but met in the past three weeks been nasty to me.

 

Any advice how to deal with this? Or any info on people going through the same stuff and how long this might go on for?

 

Sorry.

[jesslindy]

I'm in a really bad mood right now so I say **** em!

 

You're right. They have no right at all to have any say in what you say, do, or think. They threw that away the day they got dicked.

 

They are just exemplifying their typical little toddler girl behavior. Same behavior that allowed them to throw away your relationships with no remorse, empathy, or consideration.

 

Yes, Facebook is the lamest form of communication and should be banished to save society. Next time, tell jokes over the phone or at a bar. Facebook is immature, and if you want to rise above your toddler ex, Facebook isn't the way to do it.

 

None the less, **** em.