figgurinoutlife Posted June 12, 2005 Share Posted June 12, 2005 I told my ex not to call me anymore so I could heal and get over her. Why would my ex still be pissed about that after 2 mos. She called me because she had some of my movies and was bitter on the message. I call back and she was hinting around wanting to know what I've been doing cause I'm never home (we live in same apt. complex) but I didn't say much. She was hanging around some people, she then said "I'll have to call you back, it's my boyfriend." And she emphasized the word "boyfriend." Seems she's trying to throw her boyfriend in my face, plus she never called back, didn't expect her to. Does her bitterness mean anything, like she still cares? Why would she call me for a lame excuse then act pissy? Is she just not over me? If she was would she be throwing her boyfriend in my face, and making several comments that I'm never home? Link to post Share on other sites
outdated Posted June 12, 2005 Share Posted June 12, 2005 By telling her not to call, you have taken some of the power away from her and she is bitter about that. I don't think it necessarily means that she is still interested, it just means that she wants to still have that control over you. She senses that she's losing it. She realizes that you're getting on with your life and not pining away over her and chicks hate that. It's the same old story- "You're not good enough for me, but motherf***er I better still be the only one for you." Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted June 12, 2005 Share Posted June 12, 2005 Well I don't really think you need to concern yourself with her pissy attitude. Just add one more reason why you really don't want to talk to her - she can't give you sass but no ass Link to post Share on other sites
Author figgurinoutlife Posted June 12, 2005 Author Share Posted June 12, 2005 Wonder what her next move will be? Think she will call again? I didn't lose my temper over the phone, I was pleasent and told her about my new job, and asked her about hers, man she was bitter even talking about our jobs. She then said "I gotta go, it's my boyfriend." I said "okay that's cool, bye." Why does she have to be prideful and stubborn. Just boggles my mind wondering what she is up to. Would you all of called her back after she left a message that said "letting you know I have 2 of your movies." Don't you think that is an indication that she wanted me to call her? It was 2 months of NC, which is very good. Just figured I could have a decent conversation with her. Well, I won't call her back, that ball is in her court. Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted June 12, 2005 Share Posted June 12, 2005 Check your motives man. You should be trying to get over this chick. Pretend like she no longer exists. Would I return her call? What call? Who? Forget about the movies. Who cares about her next move... she doesn't exist, remember? She doesn't make moves - and, if she does, it's really none of your concern because they don't affect you. Link to post Share on other sites
Explorer/Traveller Posted July 10, 2005 Share Posted July 10, 2005 Eh, she's probably hurt the way you seemed to move on so fast, as if the relationship you and her had, meant nothing to you. She is probably throwing the boyfriend thing at you to try and get a rise out of you, to see if you still care....which you seem to indicate you don't...ie: you don't care about her anymore..hence her bitterness...she's feeling rejected...To make it easier on her, emphasize and make absolutely clear, no contact means no contact, unless you absoultey are sure you want to try being with her again...good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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