13Hearts Posted March 29, 2016 Share Posted March 29, 2016 thanks for the uplifting message.. I just can help myself feeling bad about it. specially now that I have a son with him.. Yes, you CAN help it, even if you have a son with him. What you believe about men, and what I believe about men, are obviously very different. If you want to continue feeling bad, continue to believe what you believe. If you want to feel better and quit crying over some ass who uses women, all you have to do is start changing the way you think about and see things. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author tillwemeetagain Posted April 4, 2016 Author Share Posted April 4, 2016 As a father, that is appalling. $20 or $30 dollars? I sure hope the women on this forum will attempt to set that correct. Yes that is correct.. only that amount of mONEY.. one of our common friend told me that his atm card is with her wife. that is why... he just get something in his the money that is allotted for his weekly allowance which was given by her wife. Link to post Share on other sites
sunburned Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Yes that is correct.. only that amount of mONEY.. one of our common friend told me that his atm card is with her wife. that is why... he just get something in his the money that is allotted for his weekly allowance which was given by her wife. This is incredibly insulting to you! Listen, I don't care if you're still "in love" with this guy and don't want to ruffle his feathers. YOU HAVE A CHILD. Your child cannot advocate for himself. You have to put your "feelings" for this ass clown aside and do what is right for your young child. Maybe you feel like you're making enough money to do this on your own and that's great. But your MM OWES support to his baby. And you don't know what lies ahead but the cost of raising a child is enormous. Food, shelter, tuition, College, insurance, medical bills, etc. Please, for the sake of your helpless baby, establish paternity and make this loser pay whatever a court of law determines. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author tillwemeetagain Posted April 23, 2016 Author Share Posted April 23, 2016 I just learned that my married mans wife is now pregnant and bearing a boy. I feel really really bad for my son. As I know he will no longer be needed because he already have a son that is in his name. I know that's my fault not letting him sign the birth certificate.. that's another signal to end it as my sons birthday is approaching aswell. I hope I can do it after the birth day as I have mention in previous thread that I will just stay up until my sons birthday so I can actually get support for his 1st birthday. then I will need to go. I am really hurt to know that news because as I pray always that he can have a lot of daughter but not a son. I know it sounds really selfish but im a mother that I don't want my son to have other competitors when it comes to that. so when the time comes he is the one that his father will ask for because he is the only son but not will happen now unfortunately. Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 I just learned that my married mans wife is now pregnant and bearing a boy. I feel really really bad for my son. As I know he will no longer be needed because he already have a son that is in his name. I know that's my fault not letting him sign the birth certificate.. that's another signal to end it as my sons birthday is approaching aswell. I hope I can do it after the birth day as I have mention in previous thread that I will just stay up until my sons birthday so I can actually get support for his 1st birthday. then I will need to go. I am really hurt to know that news because as I pray always that he can have a lot of daughter but not a son. I know it sounds really selfish but im a mother that I don't want my son to have other competitors when it comes to that. so when the time comes he is the one that his father will ask for because he is the only son but not will happen now unfortunately. I'm sorry to say but that all sounds ridiculous to me. What you do is go to the courts and apply for child support, it doesn't matter that he didn't sign the birth certificate, make it up to him to prove that he's not the father (he can't so you win) then he'll be ordered to pay you what is required. He will also be formally recognized as your scummy MM's first son. Then you forget this two-timimg loser, he doesn't care about anyone except himself. You concentrate on being the best mother you can be by showing your son by example how a woman and child should be treated- what I'm saying is if you let your son grow up knowing that men can go and sleep with whoever they like without consequence, then he'll do the same in the future. Stop this from happening now. You are the one teaching your son what is acceptable, teach him strength of character, respect for others and morals. Set an example by being strong, independent and self respecting. He will never learn these things from his father. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 but I don't have him signed birth certificate for son.. so he could deny my son.. and I don't want to include my son in the mess and let everybody know. he has the tendency denying my son since he couldn't get his wife mad at him and throw him back to from scratch he is enjoying the wealth of his wife. ill just take time. thank you for the advice as well. It's 2016, there's DNA testing. Pretty standard as far a child support goes. Nail his stupid ass to the wall. This is pretty standard stuff! Your child has the right to the support. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 I just learned that my married mans wife is now pregnant and bearing a boy. I feel really really bad for my son. As I know he will no longer be needed because he already have a son that is in his name. I know that's my fault not letting him sign the birth certificate.. that's another signal to end it as my sons birthday is approaching aswell. I hope I can do it after the birth day as I have mention in previous thread that I will just stay up until my sons birthday so I can actually get support for his 1st birthday. then I will need to go. I am really hurt to know that news because as I pray always that he can have a lot of daughter but not a son. I know it sounds really selfish but im a mother that I don't want my son to have other competitors when it comes to that. so when the time comes he is the one that his father will ask for because he is the only son but not will happen now unfortunately. Go file for CHILD SUPPORT ALREADY! This is just too much. You aren't going to "nice" this guy into being decent human being or parent and your child deserves more support than his first birthday because "you feel sad" or whatever. This is completely irresponsible to your son. He deserves to be #1. Not your MM. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Dancewithme Posted April 24, 2016 Share Posted April 24, 2016 Go file for CHILD SUPPORT ALREADY! This is just too much. You aren't going to "nice" this guy into being decent human being or parent and your child deserves more support than his first birthday because "you feel sad" or whatever. This is completely irresponsible to your son. He deserves to be #1. Not your MM. Go for the child support ASAP, and then wipe this scummy man from your memory. Consider this situation with MM your 2x4 upside the head! These men do this crappy stuff to us women because we allow it. Remember, you are teaching this MM how to treat you! Now, you are teaching your son how to treat women. So, just stop. No man's p*nis is that golden! Good luck. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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