Where to go from here?

[Beatles4]

Hi there,

 

Did meet this girl, not long ago at church, and this time I had a mate try help me out, to try to "make it happen" for me, I guess cause I have bin single that long he just wanted to help me, he recently got into a relationship too.

 

At the end of the day it was up to the girl if she wanted to go out with me or not and unfortunately turned me down, could be cause she is 21 and I am 27? not sure, I dont get why tho as she seemed keen, her body language suggested she liked me....

 

I dont seem to meet many girls, the last one was last year where a friend (female friend) tried to hook me up with her best mate that did not go well =(

 

I just dont know where to start, its like when you look for a new job, and wont get into a job just like that tomorrow. (I am self employed but using that analogy as its good)

[road]

Women want strong men. Asking someone else to ask her out for you appeared weak.

 

 

Try chatting her up. See where it goes.

[Beatles4]

Women want strong men. Asking someone else to ask her out for you appeared weak.

 

 

Try chatting her up. See where it goes.

 

That never happened lol, when I said friend helped me more of guided me lol.

 

He said my "game" was strong with her but like I said if she says no thats up to her isnt it!

[road]

That never happened lol, when I said friend helped me more of guided me lol.

 

He said my "game" was strong with her but like I said if she says no thats up to her isnt it!

 

 

Well maybe the problem is that you are playing games with her instead of being honest.

 

 

Or the way you wrote the first post you chose your words poorly you did the same when talking with her.

 

 

We all get shot down at least once.