biggles6087 Posted February 29, 2016 Share Posted February 29, 2016 Well a bit about myself I'm 38 a single dad really out going friendly not a heavy drinker nor a smoker,I'm a non pushy guy def not clingy I keep fit and is pity confident always smiling and laughing I treat people with respect but anytime I get close to a girl I like straight away they kick me into my friend zone.All I want to do now is settle and be happy i have a great bunch of mates but on the inside I'm starting to feel ugly on in the inside and the loneliness is starting to get to me abit. why am I considered friendship material. Link to post Share on other sites
Noandyes Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Well, everything can starts with a friendship. Be patient and slowly impress them with all the good qualities you have. I'm sure they will appreciate and fall in love with you one day. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 8, 2016 Share Posted March 8, 2016 Sounds like you're picking the wrong women some way. You're 38 and this may only be a figure of speech, but you referred to them as girls. You shouldn't be trying to date girls, if that is what you meant. Otherwise, if you're age appropriate and aren't trying to date women who are way better looking than you, then it's probably just a matter of numbers. If you're not already spending time doing the things you most enjoy, outside activities, hobbies, do that so you can meet someone like minded. It's possible you need to make it known right up front you're not being "just a friend" by asking them out on real dates and it will be some rejections, but it's quicker to filter them out that way so you know you're not wasting a bunch of time. Dating sucks, doesn't it? Link to post Share on other sites
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