jenkins95 Posted March 1, 2016 Share Posted March 1, 2016 Exactly he is at fault here, but the OP has somewhat assumed the position of being the core person, when in reality the wife moves back in, he doesn't even tell the OP, and now he is playing happy families at home with his wife again. She and he are the core here, the ones that matter and that IS very unfortunate for the OP, but getting into the middle of a newly separated husband and wife was always going to be tough, and some would say a recipe for disaster. NOT only because of the possibility of a reconciliation, but also due to the possibility of being a rebound. Few relationships of a few months duration can take the place of a marriage with a child involved. Given the stark choice - the wife and child or the OP - this man did what most men tend to do and stayed with his marriage, his child, his house, his friends, his status...etc. etc. Well put Elaine. In making that choice, he has been cruel to keep the OP hanging on and he should step up to the mark and finish it properly. It's possible that he has been lying to both and keeping his options open. He needs to stop playing games for everyone's sake. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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