I just can't come out and say something that would seal the deal.

[PCK91]

Hi,

Looking on the internet clueless and i finally found this great place.

 

 

Basically, I like a girl a lot. I am shy when it comes to expressing my feelings for her, but flirting and everything im good at. I just can't come out and say something that would seal the deal.

 

 

She flirts with me a lot, wants to hang out all the time and do a bunch of stuff. But then, the other day, we're hanging out with a bunch of my friends and her friend (after her long family birthday party, in which I was the only guy friend invited supposable)...The girls are having girl talk in the other room, and they said it was okay for me to come in.

 

 

The first thing they start talking about when I come in is, " So I don't know what to do, *jack* is grounded for the next couple of weeks so I doubt I can hang out with him, but I also like *bob*"

 

 

Now by this time, I was just lost because she's been hardcore flirting with me for 2 weeks now. And she says she likes a guy that just got off a relationship because he wasn't getting any action? And she always says she wants a nice guy (me) and there I am sitting on the floor, not trying showing my emotions. I act confused, and say I didn't know *bob* just broke up with so and so, trying to kill time.

 

 

Then they get up and want to go play pool.

 

 

Her and I start playing pool, and she is still flirting with me a lot, bending over showing her cleavage when im shooting. Doing her usual spell on me. Meanwhile im still not trying to go ballistic and just whoop her ass in pool, and try and let her win.....I ended up winning anyways, to save the long story.

 

 

So we go outside, we all sit around and talk and I leave because I wanted to shower before we went and did anything else that night. She told me to call her; I called her an hour later and no answer but I didn’t leave a message so my bad. So no biggie, Im out with my friends, and guess what I find out she is hanging out with *bob*.

 

 

Now im just crushed, having a ****ty night, wake up today, go play basketball and run try to shrug it off. But on my way home, guess who I saw again, her and *bob* going to rent some movies with two of her best girlfriends.

 

 

Now here I am right now, crushed again, but here is what I figure.

 

 

*Bob* is basically the ladies man, as sophomore he was Varsity Quarterback ( im not a bum/geek either) and almost brought us to state. And he just got off a 5 month relationship, and I know they broke up basically because he didn't get his sex that he wanted.

 

 

Now she digs him? Three days after the breakup because of no action? She's smart and I don't know how she doesn’t' realize this.

 

 

Now here is what I have come up with

 

 

A. They started talking about who she liked in front of me when I walked in; to see if I was going to get jealous...It was obvious I was...

B. She's hanging out with him, because well, she’s not a biotch and hardly says no to anyone.

C. She likes him, led me on, and im in the crapper once again.

D. She doesn’t know who to like and is giving everyone a shot.

E. She likes me, doesn’t know I like her, and I probably should say something soon!

 

 

But here’s a fact: They never hang out unless her best girlfriends there, and were always alone when we hang out.

 

 

Let me know what you think, ( A,B,C,D,E) positive or negative. I know im still young and have plenty of love life left I hope, but just feel free to share.

[MWC_LifeBeginsAt40]

If you and the people you hang around with are still being "grounded" then I would say you are way too young to be worrying about this kind of thing.

 

Don't they have a forum here for pre-teens?

[Merin]

My take..

 

This Girl may very well still have an interest in you, BUT it seems to me she is interested in *Bob* not maybe because she thinks he's such a great Guy and definately not because she's incapable of saying no if she isn't into someone.. but because she likes the status (so to speak) that *Bob* may have... he's popular, plays football.. so it could be the image of Bob she likes so much and not so much WHO he is.

 

Also, she may always have her Friends with her when she's hanging out with *Bob* because she knows of his reputation of wanting to get laid, and she isn't all about it, so she doesn't want to be alone with him and have to tell him no...

 

My guess is *Bob* isn't going to be down for this for long... so when he isn't in the picture, make your move and let her know you're interested.

[tyranus_05]

Originally posted by MWC_LifeBeginsAt40

If you and the people you hang around with are still being "grounded" then I would say you are way too young to be worrying about this kind of thing.

 

Don't they have a forum here for pre-teens?

 

Lol... I didn't pick that... I just thought the guy was a pilot or something! :-)