Delcore Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I've become pretty attracted to a girl at my high school recently. A few days ago, our whole class went into the auditorium to read a novel, and so when we arrived we sat down spread out across the entire auditorium. While I was sitting, she called my name over to invite me to come sit next to her, which I accepted up, and led to a pretty interesting conversation. And so, these past few days, we've been talking pretty passionately with one another, and I've also taken it upon myself to flirt with her as well. Since I've started flirting with her, I've managed to get her to hold long eye-gazes with me in conversation, get her to dip her head at me during conversation, slowly breaking the touch barrier with light sweeps on her arms and hands, and get her to laugh with me. On top of this, I even managed to get her number by asking if I could send her some funny political innuendos I thought were interesting. Obviously, most people at this point would say that she's probably interested since she's really gone out of her way to speak and interact with me. My real question is, "When should I ask her out"? I obviously have a lot of green lights, but I don't want to rush things if it's not the best time yet. I just don't really want to end up friend-zoned with this girl as things have been going pretty well recently between me and her. So, what can you guys recommend? Are the circumstances comfortable enough yet for me to ask her out, or should I wait a little longer and get to know her more before I make a move? I don't want to wait too long and end up FZ'd if I'm this close to perhaps having my first relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
ff12343 Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 I say ask her out as quickly as possibly to avoid the friend zone. If she declines or makes up excuses one after the other then I would avoid her. Treat it as a business deal. Being friend zoned is not in your favor so walk if that ends up being the case. Would make her think twice if she saw you fading from her. Anyways, Good luck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Forwardness/confidence wins the girl ask her out now. If you show any signs of weakness, the friends zone is where you go. Link to post Share on other sites
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