JustAWondering Posted April 9, 2001 Share Posted April 9, 2001 My girlfriend & I broke up about a month ago after a 2 year relationship. 1 day after we broke up, she met a guy from out of town that was visiting his brother. 2 days after she met him, she slept with him and he moved in with her immediatly. This guy doesn't have a job or a license and has a bad police record, which supprises me as to why she would want him to move in with her. Before they met, he was living with another girl. Now, my ex-girlfriend is the type that doesn't like being alone and needs a guy for security. I see this as a rebound relationship headed for disaster. But I also seriously doubt that she would ever ask him to leave should she decide she doesn't like him, since she feels the need to have a guy live with her. I have no intentions on ever getting back together with her, but I am curious about what will come of this. She's 30 years old, and her whole life has been like this, from one guy to the next. What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 9, 2001 Share Posted April 9, 2001 I think this lady has lots of serious problems and you should schedule a party with all your friends for next weekend to celebrate being away from her. I also think you should resolve to stop delving into her life and her business and concentrate on making YOURSELF happy. Link to post Share on other sites
sparkle Posted April 9, 2001 Share Posted April 9, 2001 SHE IS NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND ANYMORE. Thank God you're finally rid of such an insecure girlfriend. The good thing about ex's are that you don't have to think about them or worry about them ever again. Be very happy; you just rid yourself of a BIG problem (in the form of a female). And the good thing about her is that she's an ADULT: a 30 year old woman that can take care of herself. If she can't, she'll learn. But she needs no help from you. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Mojo Posted April 9, 2001 Share Posted April 9, 2001 i think you are very lucky to not be in her life anymore. that might not sound like the nicest comment, but honestly, she is one mixed up chick. you don't need that, especially from a 30 year old woman. of course you still have feelings for her, but honestly, don't preoccupy yourself with why she behaves the way she does. there may be a reason, they're may not be a reason. some people are simply needy people who often end-up with the wrong people. she's 30 years old. it would be best to leave her to her own devices. honestly, you'd think at 30 she would have gotten herself together by now, or at least learnt the error of her ways. if this relationship is headed for disaster, let it head for disaster. she has to learn herself, and maybe she has to learn the hard way. you don't want to be her crutch for her to lean on whenever something goes wrong in her life. people who are really mixed up are people who bring you down with them if you stay with them. trust me, i was in that situation once myself (i wasn't the mixed up one). oneday you will find a girl that isn't so needy, isn't desperate to have a guy with her, and isn't so mixed up. you will find a girl who is confident, self-assured, and has her s*** together. a girl who can love you and want to be with you for all the right reasons and one you will never have to try and figure out. and what an awesome feeling that is - not wanting to figure someone out. Link to post Share on other sites
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