Tiger-Lily Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 Hi I am the last of four children but always feel like I am an only child. There is a seven year gap between myself and my sibling before me. To make a long story short about four years ago my mother died and left me all alone. My other sibling live overseas and my eldest brother started taking his vacation in January (the month of my birthday) to come visit me. By spending this type of time with him annually made me get to understand his personality much more, I got to understand that he was dispectful to women. We never had any problems but this January I really got angry with him since he has a house that is rented out and I conduct the business on his behalf (the house is next door to mine). Last November the tenants left and the house needed cleaning and I had to beg him to take up is responsibilities (he went the day before his flight and pretended to clean the house). The roof for that house was to be reconstructed and two days before his flight he contacted the carpenter and left a list of duties for me to do. (Keeping in mind that he was here for the entire month of January) My problem is that when he was here every opportunity he got, he would leave. I never asked about his where about, since his is an adult but I was informed that he was seeing a female who was twenty years his junior and she has a child and does not have a good reputation. He is coming this week to see her and take her to a concert and at present the roof is being constructed and I have to see about it. He told my eldest sister the reason for him coming over was to see about the roof and talk to the carpenter but he phoned me up yesterday and told me that he only told her that so that she would not scold him and he has no intentions of staying at my home and would be staying at the young ladies house and he wants to borrow my car over the weekend to take her out. Could you please tell me if I am over reacting. I told him to get his priorities straight. I should not have to be doing his work (things a man should do) whiles he pretends to have a long distance relationship, because I know that he is only using this young lady (this is not the only one). He asked me for my blessings yesterday and wanted for all of us to hang out. I told him that I do not agree his conduct and don't want to be around that situation. He acts like he does not understand my point of view. Please give me your point of view. Link to post Share on other sites
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted June 13, 2005 Share Posted June 13, 2005 Tell him plain and simple, that you're not going to look after his business anymore. Then don't. Link to post Share on other sites
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