Lee hye ri Posted March 5, 2016 Share Posted March 5, 2016 (edited) I dont know how to describe it ... But iam 21... And cant understand love songs .. Literally i mean ... Cant relate or understand it ... When i listen to song i listen for the voice and music only not the meaning .. They cant seem to touch me ... But when i listen to other songs othe than romantic ones.. I may end up crying ... I dont express my feelings about loving anyone even my mom ... But i may prove it by another action ... Not by words ... I find a difficulty in hugging poeple too... I dont know how to fix it ... Anyone can help? .. Oh btw .. Iam a female Edited March 5, 2016 by Lee hye ri Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted March 5, 2016 Share Posted March 5, 2016 if you have difficulty expressing/understanding love in all of those ways, you might not have been taught by your parents and I wouldn't think words here would fix it. I would suggest therapy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
dichotomy Posted March 5, 2016 Share Posted March 5, 2016 (edited) I am reminded of this video. Perhaps one step is to start with your mom - just say I love you when you talk to her. You mention actions - Love is often about actions more than words. Plenty of posts here of people who are hurt by the actions of those who say I love you but do things that are not loving. Physical affection - hugging, holding,touching - can be a family, cultural or learned thing. You could just try this more - fake it till you make it. Edited March 5, 2016 by dichotomy Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lee hye ri Posted March 10, 2016 Author Share Posted March 10, 2016 The video was very good ... Thank you all for replying .. I appreciate it... Link to post Share on other sites
deckard11 Posted March 13, 2016 Share Posted March 13, 2016 The sooner you realize that love is just a made up myth the better you'll be. It doesn't exist. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lee hye ri Posted March 13, 2016 Author Share Posted March 13, 2016 I dont think love is a myth ... But there are bunch of people that make you hate love ... And they are many Link to post Share on other sites
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