sandra19 Posted March 5, 2016 Share Posted March 5, 2016 I met my ex 2 years ago and our relationship has been on and off since then, until I broke up with him for good a year ago. I cut things off and ive tried to leave him many times before because he always got so clingy very fast. He messaged me on facebook recently, asking how im doing and begging me for another chance to talk. I gave him my number and hes been messaging me every day since then, for 2 months since he contacted me on facebook, we have been talking about very personal stuff, the issues ive been having with my family, and problems hes been having He asked me out for coffee many times and I said no. Just to talk about things. He says he wants to at least be friends, or "more". I rejected the coffee dates. Then, out of the blue, he started asked me to come over to his place and he does this every day now. He keeps talking sexual and trying to come pick me up and get me to come over and stuff. He says "I know you cant live without s**, so choose me instead of some other random guy, I want to be the one". I have been considering possibly meeting him up for coffee since he is so persistent, and I do miss him im not going to lie. But I wonder why he is getting so sexual over the phone now. How do I know if he just wants sex? should I go out with him just for coffee and to talk just to see what his intentions are? or should I forget about him? I do still have feelings for him and I think he does as well (I mean, why would he message me after I broke up with him? when he can find another girl?) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 5, 2016 Share Posted March 5, 2016 How many times are you going to fall back into old patterns that don't work? When you are sick of doing that you will simply stop meeting with him. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted March 5, 2016 Share Posted March 5, 2016 Your mistake lies in you leaving the door open by which he contacts you. *No direct contact. *No sending or receiving of messages. *Block any means he might use to contact you. *No replies to anything that gets through your blocks. *No indirect contact through third parties. *De-friend or delete from all social media. *No monitoring of him on social media. *No 'little birds' feeding you news. *Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what he is doing or saying. Take care. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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